hi Kim

You are doing everything you can to help your daughter, it is such a stressful situation.

I had an eating disorder for many years when I was young, perhaps what the doctor says will eventually make some sense. The doctor scared me when he told me all the health risks and that I was actually killing myself. Then he got me the professional help to break the addictive behaviour cycle.
I am also an Occupational Therapist, I worked in Mental Health for a long time, and came across patients with similar issues.

Keep us posted and ask if you need any support from us, quite happy if you need to PM me,