Wow, it must be hard hearing she isn't 'severe' enough. How scary.

Will you be able to get a councellor that specialises in eating disorders or do you just get a 'general' (!) one?

On the sex thing - it's very hard to say but my DD had condoms in her room from about 13, I think they came from a prank they all played on a friend for his birthday but she is 16.5 now and still hasn't had sex. I was sooo paranoid.

Can you talk to her at all or does her head start spinning and spewing pea soup?