cmf - my gp isn't the one ignoring any probs, it was the psych therapy unit that he was trying to get her into and they suggested she had ODD (oppositional defiance disorder) but I don't think it is that.

Sarah - I'll try to find the book and see if she will read it. We have trouble getting her to read anything.

Thanks Abb34 and Divvy, I have been worried for so long now and it is good that she is starting to come round.

As I said earlier I'll keep you guys updated.

Thanks

Kim