Is this normal 15 yearold behaviour? tmi

[Nazela]

My sisters are going through a divorce , they have always had the verbally and physical marriage (from both parties). Both parents are not emotional stable parents nor have they been there for either kids.
Now they are going through a divorce, with 3 boys (19.15,14)

Just recently my 15 year old nephew has discovered sexuality - he watches porn online, he has threatened his younger brother that his going to sleep with his gf, and now at age 15 he paid $30 and went to brothel (didnt know they accepted 15 year olds and were so cheap).


Mum is panicking as the parents arent the best supportive parents, nor can my sister manage them on her own, now the 15 year old is acting differently sexually compared to what my other nephew or my brother apparently went through.

Can anyone tell me with experience with rebellious 15 year old boys - is this normal?

[kirsty_lee]

I have NEVER heard of a brothel having anything for $30 that is just weird. Secondly they ALWAYS check ID for these places, they are usually watched very closely due to what they are offering iykwim. So god knows how he pulled that one off. 15 year olds are usually pretty sexually aware and also because of stuff he's going through it's probably the way he releases his frustrations. But the brothel behaviour would worry me, if it is in fact true that he got in and got something for 30 bucks

[Trish]

Personally I think the bit about the brothel is a load of BS, just a teenage boy brig mouthing I think. There is no way they would go anywhere near a child of any age.

Teenage boys like sex, adult men like sex, it's a simple as that. I do think it's pretty normal for a boy his age to be curious and interested in sex. I know my own 16 year old is more than a little interested in sex too. Just last week I was checking the history on my pc and found some porn sites on there. I have now put on a net nanny thing, so hopefully that will slow it down.

I know this sounds bad but I am going to say it anyway. I think I'd rather my son watching porn than out there sleeping with God know's who and risk getting some girl pregnant or worse.

[fionas]

I agree with Trish - I think it's normal for boys to be interested in sex, look at porn, try to sleep with their girlfriend and try to go to a brothel. But that doesn't mean that your sister should do nothing about it

[Nazela]

my selfish sister (shes just annoying me) finds it hillarious that he has gone to a brothel and paid $30 then came and told her about it.

I got peed coz, these kids are being emotionally used by both parents (if you stay with me i will buy/do this, ur mum/dad is bad , he/she will remarry then forget you etc), if it IS true he has confided in her about what he did that day (good or bad), then he catches her telling my mum bout it withing 15 mins. She is losing him and his trust.

I keep telling his brother and my sister to talk to him about it, explain and promise to take him to a brothel / club at age 16 or 18 if he can stop going there.

i told them porn is normal, hey my hubby use to look/watch them when he was married at 25...so its normal but im just alittle worried

[kirsty_lee]

Just IMO there is no way he scored at a brothel for 30 bucks... absolutely no way.. I know the prices of such establishments as im sure alot of people do so i think he's just full of bs...plus as i previously stated no way would he be let in without sufficiant id