OMG you just posted what i have been feeling! Except my DD is nearly 16 and she doesn't really swear. I am going out of my mind with the attitude. We have taken Jess' mobile off her as we found that even though we have a rule of no phone calls after 9pm and we have spoken to her about it in the past and she is supposed to put her phone out in the kitchen at night, the last bill still showed her making calls at 10,11 and 12 o'clock at night on weeknights. The problem is she acts like she just doesn't care, she's so rude to everyone and gets all "huffy" all the time, its driving me nuts- where is my beautiful loving DD????
Sorry that turned into a rant about me, didn't mean to hijack just wanted you to know you are not alone and I have no answers either!