Gee... you guys are describing exactly how I was when I was a teenager! I guess I shut people out because I wanted my independance and thought that I was grown up enough to make my own decisions. I also hung around with people that were 3-4 years older than me, so of course they were allowed to do more than I was and I wanted to 'be like them'. I got to the point where I didn't care what my parents did to me ie. take my phone off me, ground me, ban me from the internet etc. I think that had a lot to do with who I was hanging out with though and their attitude (I had a friend who moved out at 15 with her bf and had a terrible attitude). For some unknown reason I thought she was cool and I guess I tried to be like her. I really don't know what you can do about it... but maybe like Hoobley said ... take some time out with your DD and do some girly things with her and let her know you love her and want to spend time with her. I am sure you do this anyway!!

Hope it sorts itself out soon enough... not sure if I have helped or not but I wish you all the best *hugs*