She's only 15! :(

[Lulu]

did she use protection mate? Some people just want to get rid of it (virginity) for some reason.

Random hook ups scare me - what if he HURT her? YOu poor poor thing xoxoxoxo

[Pandora]

She should be able to go to the doctors and organise it for herself, without you needing to be involved at all.

[~clover~]

Yeah she used protection. She did promise me that. I just reminded her that accidents do happen no matter how careful you are.
& yes I am terrified of her getting hurt. It scares me like you wouldn't believe.

She does tell her mum everything, but things have been a bit tense lately (her age I guess), so I just wanted to make sure she did still tell her. She says she will.

I just feel like I should be there to make sure she's safe. I know she's gonna party & crap as they do, but I'm 10 hours away. I'm scared something will happen & I won't be there.

But then I guess she'll be fine without me. There are plenty of other teen girls out there surviving without me

I've regretted it later & I was nearly 17 & it was with XH.

[[M]umma[M]ia]

its great that u care so much. Im sure she appreciates it

[~clover~]

She does I think. Thats why she told me first.
Imagine what I'll be like when my girls are that age?

[Arimeh]

Could be worse - there's girls out there that are 12 and willingly give it away. I think I was the only 15 year old in my group that still had their virginity when I was at school - and that was *cough cough* a fair few years ago...

I'm glad she feels secure enough in her relationship with you that she can confide in you.

[BeautifulMadness]

thats great that a 15 yr old girl can confide in someone.

[Visitor8]

wow that is so young

[tattoo_mama]

Could be worse - there's girls out there that are 12 and willingly give it away. I think I was the only 15 year old in my group that still had their virginity when I was at school - and that was *cough cough* a fair few years ago...

I'm glad she feels secure enough in her relationship with you that she can confide in you.

totally agree with this...
i went to a girls high school and think that made it worse cause we didnt get to talk to boys all week so when it came to weekend parties we all went boy crazy, i think i was the last in my group to loose mine aswell, a few weeks before 16.

i was always pretty open with my folks, mum especially but no wayyyyy would i have told her i lost my v plates then! she got drunk about a yr later and bugged me about it and i lied and said id just recently lost them....lucky she didnt remember in the morning (or has never said anything about it since)...but im pg now so she must know ive done it HAHA

i would feel very special if someone her age confided that in me, and like another member said, at her age she should be able to go organise contraception by herself thru GP or family planning centre....whats the worst that will happen if her mum finds out shes on the pill/got condoms in her bag? YES your daughters having sex but at least she is being safe!!!
theyre gonna do it anyway so might aswell be safe!!

possibly have a sit down with her (the daughter not the mum) and let her know that now shes done it, she doesnt have to KEEP doing it...sounds silly but i never realised this and thought well ive done it, boys love it, ill just keep going, when if id thought about it or talked about it with someones whos 'been there done that', i couldve thought to myself, yes ive done it, but its under my control and I choose with who, if and when it happens again.
GL

[[M]umma[M]ia]

its great that u care so much. Im sure she appreciates it

[[M]umma[M]ia]

Its very rare these days to find a girl that cares much about virginity.

It was going to happen someday and she is 18 in 2.5 years.


I hope she used protection and doesnt regret it later. I know i did and i was 14.