She's only 15! :(

[~clover~]

My SIL just confided in me that she's lost her virginity

I'm kinda shattered, but proud she told me. It was a 'random hook up' as she put it.
She's not 16 til June. I want her on the pill or depo or something JIC, but I'm not going to go behind her back & tell her mum & I'm not going to go behind her mum's back & organise it without her knowing. I just told her she should tell her mum she's thinking about it & that she'd like to get something JIC.

A random hook up! Why does losing your virginity mean nothin these days?

I told her I'm sad for her, she doesn't understand why. I just said that if she ever needs anything at all she knows where to come.

My baby is growing up I've known her since she was 7. Its all happening too fast for me!

[Lulu]

did she use protection mate? Some people just want to get rid of it (virginity) for some reason.

Random hook ups scare me - what if he HURT her? YOu poor poor thing xoxoxoxo

[Pandora]

She should be able to go to the doctors and organise it for herself, without you needing to be involved at all.

[~clover~]

Yeah she used protection. She did promise me that. I just reminded her that accidents do happen no matter how careful you are.
& yes I am terrified of her getting hurt. It scares me like you wouldn't believe.

She does tell her mum everything, but things have been a bit tense lately (her age I guess), so I just wanted to make sure she did still tell her. She says she will.

I just feel like I should be there to make sure she's safe. I know she's gonna party & crap as they do, but I'm 10 hours away. I'm scared something will happen & I won't be there.

But then I guess she'll be fine without me. There are plenty of other teen girls out there surviving without me

I've regretted it later & I was nearly 17 & it was with XH.

[[M]umma[M]ia]

its great that u care so much. Im sure she appreciates it

[~clover~]

She does I think. Thats why she told me first.
Imagine what I'll be like when my girls are that age?

[[M]umma[M]ia]

its great that u care so much. Im sure she appreciates it

[[M]umma[M]ia]

Its very rare these days to find a girl that cares much about virginity.

It was going to happen someday and she is 18 in 2.5 years.


I hope she used protection and doesnt regret it later. I know i did and i was 14.