Could be worse - there's girls out there that are 12 and willingly give it away. I think I was the only 15 year old in my group that still had their virginity when I was at school - and that was *cough cough* a fair few years ago...

I'm glad she feels secure enough in her relationship with you that she can confide in you.
totally agree with this...
i went to a girls high school and think that made it worse cause we didnt get to talk to boys all week so when it came to weekend parties we all went boy crazy, i think i was the last in my group to loose mine aswell, a few weeks before 16.

i was always pretty open with my folks, mum especially but no wayyyyy would i have told her i lost my v plates then! she got drunk about a yr later and bugged me about it and i lied and said id just recently lost them....lucky she didnt remember in the morning (or has never said anything about it since)...but im pg now so she must know ive done it HAHA

i would feel very special if someone her age confided that in me, and like another member said, at her age she should be able to go organise contraception by herself thru GP or family planning centre....whats the worst that will happen if her mum finds out shes on the pill/got condoms in her bag? YES your daughters having sex but at least she is being safe!!!
theyre gonna do it anyway so might aswell be safe!!

possibly have a sit down with her (the daughter not the mum) and let her know that now shes done it, she doesnt have to KEEP doing it...sounds silly but i never realised this and thought well ive done it, boys love it, ill just keep going, when if id thought about it or talked about it with someones whos 'been there done that', i couldve thought to myself, yes ive done it, but its under my control and I choose with who, if and when it happens again.
GL