123

thread: She's only 15! :(

  1. #37
    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
    7,070

    Can you menace the older BF at all Shalou? I would.

    If he is much older, he needs another adult talking to him and maybe asking why he wants a much younger gf.

  2. #38
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Taking a ride on my grdonkey :D
    2,716

    possibly have a sit down with her (the daughter not the mum) and let her know that now shes done it, she doesnt have to KEEP doing it...sounds silly but i never realised this and thought well ive done it, boys love it, ill just keep going, when if id thought about it or talked about it with someones whos 'been there done that', i couldve thought to myself, yes ive done it, but its under my control and I choose with who, if and when it happens again.
    GL
    OMG that is seriously the BEST bit of advice regarding teenagers and sex I have ever. heard. in my. life.
    I wish somebody had told *me* that, or that I'd had the smarts to work it out myself - but as you say, once you do it (and of course the whole school knows about it), you kind of feel like there's no reason *not* to keep doing it, or that it's just expected of you from then on, because hey, you did it with so-and-so while you were dating him so why the hell not me?? (and then... you end up getting a bad rep, kwim?)
    *writes that advice down for future reference when DD grows up a bit* lol

  3. #39
    Registered User
    Add ~clover~ on Facebook

    Sep 2007
    travelling
    9,557

    Shalou - My mum wouldn't even let me read those mags. I agree with you though. She never read them & assumed that they were just there to make you think doing those things was cool.

    I made mine & DH's parents grand parents in their 30's They had us young too though.

123