Yeah it does make sense I think the hardest part is that here is a 14yo boy who is full of raging hormones and more than likely thinking about sex and girls constantly - not that he would probably know a great deal about it - and to cap it off he has an older girl txt him and tell him openly that she wants to have sex with him and is specific enough to give him an actual date for it LOL. So that might be what is driving the relationship as opposed to him really liking her ITMS. I hope your talk with him worked and he might reconsider some of the choices he was going to make