My mum let my BF sleep over from when i was 16 but we were in seperate bedrooms. When i was nearly 18 (with the same bf) she let us sleep in the same room but always made it clear that she was still a little uncomfortable (who wouldnt be?) When i slept at my BF house (16) we slept in the same room but me in the single bed and him on the floor.

I had male friends sleep over from early teens (just friends) and at my house we were always in seperate bedrooms but when i slept at their house we always shared a room or a bed. Nothing was going to happen as we were just friends but i have never thought about it till now that the parents of the boys were always more relaxed about it than my mum. My mother ws never strict with us in any other way.

It's such a hard decision, i guess when the time comes yu will deal with it the best way you see fit. Mum was always very honest with me about how she felt so i knew that if i did the wrong thing then i would be hurting her, this made me behave MOST of the time but teenagers are teenagers.