I asked DS where he was getting the smokes from, he said he's friend was stealing them from his mum so I have rang her to let her know what was going on. Believe me DH had a good talk to him about the dangers of smoking, which he already knows and also told him that he was concerned that smoking cigarettes can lead to smoking drugs. I will have another talk to him tomorrow and ask about whether there is anything bothering him at school, I just really think he is mixing with the wrong boys. I have told him how dissapointed I am in him and he can see that I am upset even DS11 asked me what is wrong. I actually wish I could feel angry because I really can't talk to him at the moment. Thank you all for your advice I really appreciate it, this is all so new to me, it's like going from no problems to all of a sudden having a troubled teen.

Regards,
Dianne