Hi, this is a follow on from my "HELP" post!! The teacher just called me regarding the problem at school today between DD and my friends son. My friend rang me this afternoon and said her son said DD lied and got him into massive trouble.
ANyway, the teacher rang and said that wasn't true. It was a minor prob (kids lined up, DD went to teacher and said kid behind her hit her). Teacher asked child who said no. Im not sure who is right, but Im sure DD prob got knocked and may have reacted hastily who knows. Anway, teacher said she can barely remember the incident as so many kids complain of the same thing ALL day long every day!! Thing is she said it was AFTER that and TOTALLY unrelated to DD that my friends' son did get in massive trouble. She stressed nothing to do with DD. I was apologetic and said I didn't want to get involved but my "friend" had made a hurtful call to me. Teacher said that should never have happened.
My question is, what do I say to this friend. I want to leave it, but she wants to know what happened. Do i tell her the above, and risk her going to teacher and making me look like a dobber or do I just say the teacher said it was a minor incident, why don't you talk to her.
I don't want to have an enemy at school (she is the kind to make this a massive problem), but I don't want her son saying things to DD that his "mum" has told him (eg she's a liar etc).
Sorry to crap on. Im just relieved in one way, and stressed in another. This woman needs to let her kid fight his own battles.
Any advice???