It wasn't really fair of your friend to make this a big issue. I think I would tell her too that you spoke to the teacher cos you wanted to sort it out and she seemed to think that it was an unrelated incident. Just to clear your dd's name and maybe allow your friend to work out what her ds is saying that is true and not true. We all like to believe our kids don't lie, but the majority of kids lie at some time or another. I hope your friend can realise that before it's too late for you to be friends.

Cheers Mcihelle