Oh Michelle, thank god it's not the same Dr!!!! Yikes, that would have been a bit of a downer! I was pretty confident it wasn't though, apparently Dr Sacks is lovely.

I am a Catholic and although I don't practice, our daughter was christened in a Catholic church and I want her to attend a Catholic school as I did - old habits die hard (scuse the pun!) BUT I have no idea what a 'novena' is?? I musn't have been at school that day or something...I don't have any of Kazz' booties BUT funnily enough the day before I read about the yellow booties here on BB I went out and brought a tiny little pair of baby socks - yellow socks! I sleep with them under my pillow every night.

Leura is a very special place for us too - we spent our first weekend away together there and ended up having our lovely garden wedding at the same resort! We were supposed to go up there again for our 2nd anniversary in March but a cruel twist of fate had us spending the night in the ER following my miscarriage instead. Onwards and upwards though hey??

It's funny what you say about letting go - I think I am starting to do the same thing. I was saying to my friend the other day after making the appt with the FS that after an IVF clinic there's really no where else to go so if it comes it, at least I have done everything in my power and after that, I just need to leave it up to the universe.

Have you had any more thoughts on how to spend Caitlyn's birthday? I only ask because I find myself in the same predicament with our little angel's EDD. I have taken the day off work but I am just not sure what to do....

No need to thank me at all, I feel the same way about you girls and the support I get here too. I don't know what I'd do without you! I have been popping into the ttc after m/c thread to catch up with you there when you post but that thread moves so fast I generally just lurk, not post!