Hi beky,
so sorry for your loss.
Having newborn while beautiful and miraculous can be stressful especially when you've had no sleep. Think very carefully before TTC. I know the pain and emptiness of losing a baby and you sometimes feel incomplete or that something is missing but a new baby wont change those feelings. Your partner seems open to counselling and is willing to get help, that's a really good sign. When you're relationship is back on track you will know the time is right. keep communicating with each other. Keeping feelings bottled up will only result in a big blow up and argument.
Good Luck to you both
he blames himself because he thought he put me under stress which wasnt thecase i was under stress at school, stress with my mum just everything he wasnt his fault and i have told him that countless times. to never blame himself i have also had a disgussion with him and he said that he will start concilling in the new year no he said ther is no point having it now wen there is only a couple of weeks left, of the yr but he has promised me he will go, and then we will do couples.
just wondering has anyone actauly done couples conciling and does it actually work?
i love my boyfreind more than anything and i really want this relationship to work, just neeed to no that its going to work and not tear us apart.
thank you all for your replys and support.
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me -18 partner-19
Tyson and Kate mar 06
Hydie sep 07
Last edited by bekyj2; December 5th, 2008 at 11:16 AM.
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