Thank you so much Hoobley for your story and the links. Unfortunately I live in a small town and there is only one ob/gyn in town. I was considering just talking about it with my GP as he is usually pretty helpful but since the ob/gyn is the one who did my surgery and dealt with the miscarriage as well it seems I should stick with him.

The Dr who told me to wait 6 months is the ob/gyn. At that time he did say the important thing was that I bled (or had AF). And then today he said that they managed to save "a small portion of each ovary in the hopes that [I] could conceive in the future". I didn't really think about it at that point but the next hour or so the word "hopes" really started to bother me and then I remember he said it was important that I bled so then I was like oh no what if I never get af! It's all been a rollercoaster for me (though nothing compared to what some women have gone through....I feel bad just complaining about this!)

So now I'm thinking about not even waiting 6 months to ttc. He said I was fine physically today which I believe meant surgery and miscarriage wise. What if I wait 6 months and I miss the only time I will ever ovulate again!? What could happen if I dont wait 6 months?


I'm ready emotionally to conceive again I just can't fathom never conceiving!