Big hugs Carly and welcome to Belly Belly. I am so sorry to read of the passing of your babies - it is a dreadful thing to go thru once but twice in a row I understand is a huge amount of grief and confusion...

I will put the link in for an article on recurrent miscarriage - this will give you some tests to think about.

When your baby is sent away to pathology they are looking for a chromosomal abnormality. As you may know this is a cause of miscarriage - this is good to know. If it is a chromosomal abnormality that will give you some answers at least. Most often they will also be able to tell you weather your little one was a boy or a girl. For me I found that helpful for my goodbyes..

Take time to experience the gamut of emotions and take comfort from the wonderful women in here who will gather around to support you.

You can find the Recurrent Miscarriage Info HERE

Sending you prayers and strength my love.