Dear Annee,

I do feel for you. I too have had multiple miscarriages at an early stage. I started seeing a fertility specialist and had all the tests you mentioned. Like you all came back normal which was a double edged sword- good that there was 'nothing wrong' but also frustrating because finding a problem might have meant it could be treated! I felt like I was on an emotional rollercoaster, excited that I could fall pregnant easily, but devasted that I couldn't hold onto it. My FS started me on clomid which I don't think made a difference. Then at my last appointment she thought she would try some extra progesterone support with injections. Although my blood tests had been normal she thought that at a tissue level, my progesterone level may be dropping too low to suport a pregnancy. At the same time, my husband who had been in a really stressful job, left work. Low and behold that next cycle I fell pregnant and am now 22 weeks.

I had started to give up hope and I can understand how frustrating it must feel. My suggestion is has your FS tried clomid and progesterone injections? I know stress is so difficult to measure but is that an issue? I know its stressful just trying to get pregnant and that was always the case for me, but I think my husband's stress levels also played a huge factor.

Some people feel the need to take a bit of a break from trying and revisit it later, and others like me just persisted hoping that my time would come. I'm thinking of you and hoping your time will be next!

Hugs and kisses,

Skipping girl