Hi Looben, so sorry to hear of your loss it is such an awful thing to go through.

With my first pregnancy i too had a scan at 7 weeks due to some slight spotting, all was well and our baby had a strong little hearbeat. i was told not to worry about any future bleeding unless it was a huge amount. When i started spotting again at 8 weeks i ignored it, thinking all was fine but as the days went by i just knew something was wrong. I finally managed to be re-scanned again at 10 weeks only to find that the heartbeat had stopped at 8 weeks. I went on to miscarry naturally (big mistake) but then needed a d&c anyway due to some remaining tissue.

Doctors etc can be very insensitive and you should not have been treated that way! TTC again after a loss is very tough and doesnt get any easier. The only thing that keeps me going is the thought of one day, i will be holding my baby in my arms and i think that makes all the heartache worthwhile. I am determind that this will not beat me and i will get my baby, i am sure you will too!!

Good luck with your TTC journey.

xxx