Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #2 April '08

[plc1805]

mmteacher - aawwww honey - can totally understand where ur coming from. It's like a little dig at u as to where u could have otherwise been. At least ur doc is looking after u well and u have a plan. Have fun tonight honey at the dinner - yum!! steak!! Take care sweet.

[Jodsan]

Morning all,

Well AF is not here yet so I did a test and negative again. Hope she turns up soon so I can move on with the next cycle. I'm having quite sharp pains too, been the most bizarre cycle ever. I started a diet yesterday, I weighed myself for the first time in ages and I only have to lose about 3.5kgs so I'm happy about that (I actually thought it was going to be 5kgs). Think I will sit out the next cycle, which will give me a month (and an extra two weeks til O really) to lose the weight and try to get really, really healthy and get rid of the hormone imbalance. If I dont get any PMS next month then I'll know my hormones are back in check and I'll have the green light to start TTC again. Soon as AF arrives I will do a weight loss ticker, that's my focus for this month. Thank you all so much for your support, you have saved my life over the past few days.

Smilanatu - How are you, did Af show? Heaps of people dont get a BFP until after AF, got my fingers crossed.

Canary, pbstar and issy - Good luck catching the eggy this month.

Jen - Got my fingers crossed, hope AF stays away on Thurs.

Trac - Your symptoms are sounding really positive, that's probably why your dr is not worried at all. Just try to stay positive, I'm sure the US will show you a gorgeous healthy bubs.

Laura - Wow you might be further along than you thought. Whatever it is that is causing it to be so high, its a pretty good sign. Bubs is definately firmly implanted in there.

mmteacher - , so sorry that all you got is your annual exam instead of a heartbeat. Sounds like you have a really good and thoughtful dr though. Good luck catching the eggy this month.

Big hello to AJC, bettyboop, Emmy-Lou, Jenushka, Katiegirl and everyone else.

[jen805]

Jodsan--Thanks, mine are crossed as well! Feeling a little bloated and gassy (sorry, tmi), but on a positive note, last time those were 2 of my symptoms--although not quite this early I don't think.

mmteacher--It's about time I figured those things out! Hey did you see those 4 weird lights up in the sky last night? Saw it on the news tonight, they said it flew over Phoenix, but I don't know how close you are--just thought I'd ask 'cuz as soon as they said Arizona, I thought of you! Sorry about your appt. . You'll be hearing a healthy very soon!

[ll80]

Sending lots more
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GL to everyone this coming mth.

[plc1805]

jodsan - u r sounding very positive and it's great that u don't have to lose so much!! I'd be rapt just to lose 3.5 kgs at this point but i could do with a bit more shaved off Take care of ur heart as well as ur bod.

[Jodsan]

Thanks Plc - Oh dont worry, I'm sure I could do with a bit more than 3.5kgs too but I'm just hoping for a healthy TTC weight (and for my jeans to not be so tight), I'll worry about the supermodel weight once I've had my bubs Hey our sons are very similar in age, Aiden was born 31 May 06. Such a great age I reckon, he just makes up whole sentences and says it like he really believes it, its so cute!

I've changed my ticker so now I'm officially on my TTC diet. So I think that's all I need to do to boost my chances, has anyone got any ideas on how I go about getting DH to give up smoking (I'm sure it's affecting his swimmers)? I've never smoked so I just dont get it, I think I'm a bit *****y and intolerant about it.

Ok, noone else has posted so I'm just going to edit m last post. Well, everyone, no AF yet??? It is usually there when I wake up in the morning, I have been waiting all day. I just went for my run and I thought for sure it would come then, but no, just CM (sorry TMI). Doesn't feel like it's coming either. I guess if it was a chemical pg then AF could be late but why would it be late now if there is no hcg in my system anymore? Arggh

[Abbey B]

Hey everyone..

Thanks for all those who have wished me well this month..


Well everything is confusing me at the moment.. I have signs that i have ovulated but then i dont have signs and all this other stuff. The BD'ing was fun at first but now DF has "lost interest" and if "i want sex, i have to get him turn on" So now i have "lost interest" in doing that. When we agreed to TTC i told him that there are going to be times when we need to Baby Dance and neither of us are going to want to but we still have to do it and he told me that he understood that and would do it when i said we have too.. And now, he doesnt want to do it at all. He keeps saying "oh well, maybe next month"
I dont know what i can do to make him change his mind..



I dont think this will be my month..

[jenushka]

Smilinatu - with last preg I had a BFN the day before AF was due (not even the faintest of faint lines was visible). 2 days after AF due the test turned BFP before my eyes - I didn't have to wait the 3 minutes. So there is still hope my friend... :goodluck2:

Jen - I know what you mean! I said at the start of this month that we would BD every day, but *ahem* we are yet to start bd'ing this cycle... Temping didn't work for me because I just couldn't take it at THE exact same time each morning. I continue to have fingers crossed for you

mmteacher - great news about right ovary! Seems like this new doctor is onto it and is determined to get you pg...

Ladies, with o day looming for me in the next week or so, would love to hear your tips (G rated of course) on keeping the men in your life as focussed on bd as you! I'm hoping it will be possible this time to avoid it getting to the "its a chore" stage ... I accidentally referred to it as bd'ing the other night when talking to dh about ttc bub 2, and he just said "um .... I don't really think I want us to call it that". Poor boy! Issy great for you though that it is never a chore for your dh!!

Take care everyone ...

[AJC]

Girls I am hearing you re: lack of romance when you 'have to' bd!!! It is soooo frustrating. I find lots of candles (house filled with those little tea light ones) and chocolate coated strawberries are usually a winner. Ooh and a visit to the shower is always a good start, he he he. Are we meant to talk about stuff like in this or do the moderators not like that, if that is the case then sorry

Jodsan - you sound much brighter today. I'm a firm believer that diet and exercise strongly control your hormones so I think you are heading in a good direction....for a BFP!

we need more BFP's in here ladies......

[smilanatu]

AF reared her ugly head yesterday...I am out until next cycle...

Babydust to everyone still waiting! *fingers crossed*

[Vanaithi]

Hi everyone (Can I please join this forum? pretty please!) Thanks in advance!

I lost my angel on 19.04.08 & have been googling since for info on miscarriages & have come across many forums like these from other sites. But today I have finally decided to join BB as I have enjoyed reading from here the most & have found happiness & hope here. I print these out (am i allowed?!?! I aplogise if i've done wrong!) & read them every day. They inspire me.

Hubby & I conceived 2 weeks after our wedding (02 feb 08) & thought it a wonderful wedding pressie to each other. So naive & clueless as to how easy it is lose it - it is my first preg.

We've buried her (don't know for sure, but I reckon she was a she & since a lot of people's been telling me it's a girl) in the garden with a magnolia tree planted - my fav flower.

It'll be 2 weeks tomorrow, and the brown stuff are nearly all gone so we will be ttc straight away! I have been eagerly waiting for this moment...

Hey a quick question to all that may be off-putting & off-topic: so a warning that it's about going to the toilet doing #2s & relation to conception: so if you're not interested then stop reading here...


ok... has anyone noticed the difference in the smell (sorry TMI ) when pregnant compared to not pregnant? I've noticed when I was preggers, even very early on, it smells like I've eaten papaya or pawpaw (but havent) & now that I'm not it's the usual stinky. hahaha sorry if TMI but it's nature so it's normal hey?

So maybe to those thinking they may be preggers - take a big whifful! LOL

Dunno if it's just me or not, but I'd appreciate it if anyone can tell me there experiences?

What a way to introduce myself. I'm a bit ashamed & embarrassed but I'm curious to know!
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[plc1805]

Just wanted to say hi and post a quick one......

Mollycat - i am very sorry about AF - that cow!!! I'm so gonna focus on sending u some super super positive vibes for this cycle -

vanaithi - welcome honey. in all honesty, i have never noticed papaya-smelling poo with any of my pgs. sometimes i wish they would smell like papaya Seriously tho, huge hugs to u and so sorry to hear of ur loss, sweet. I hope u r blessed with a BFP very soon.

jen - i would love a duck but i don't think they can be posted - oh sweet hope u find good homes!! i can only IMAGINE ur living room. GL!!

Thanks again to everyone for all ur support - it is appreciated from the bottom of my heart.

Hello and hugs to everyone I haven't named - i take my hat off to jen for naming everyone, i just cannot compete with her - so lamely I will say ditto to all those names!! u r no less thought of

[Vanaithi]

GOODLUCK & ALL THE BEST TO YOU THIS TIME ROUND! I HOPE YOURS WILL BE THE STICKIEST & HEALTHIEST, & THAT MANY MORE WILL SOON FOLLOW! I'LL BE PRAYING FOR YOU, & EVERYONE TTC AT OUR TEMPLE THIS SUNDAY!

[jen805]

Vanaithi-- and, of course,we'd love to have you join us here-- although we'd all prefer to not have to be here at all! I'm so very sorry for your loss, and I truly feel you've come to the right place for support! I was just like you, just waiting for that first cycle to end so you can start TTC right away! Um... my poop smells like roses, thank you very much! j/k--really wish my poop smelled that sweet! I have this mental image of everyone taking big whiffs of their poop--papaya? Um, no... but check out all that corn.... I'm so sorry, I don't know what's wrong with me this morning! See, no worries, you fit right in here! All kidding aside, aside from why you're here, I'm glad you're here! Hope your stay is short and sweet on your TTC journey.


Do have a little sad news about the ducklings this morning.... Only 1 left! All the others passed away during the night. The last one I was able to hand feed this morning, several times now, and she also drinks water from me. She's (don't know this for sure, I'm just calling it a she) wrapped in a towel asleep on my lap right at this moment. I feel so bad, I think it's just because they were so young, and we had to move them because the spot they were located at was in the area where the electric company was working all day yesterday. There were huge trucks right there where they were, and not only that, there's a black cat named Panther that lives right next door and patrols the yard daily. I'm so glad there's still 1 alive, and that it's eating and drinking!


jenushka--So sorry to hear about your news... I truly hope it will help you find closure. DH's analogy really was perfect. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Hope all your questions are answered at you appt. next week.


bettyboop--Sorry to hear you've been stressed, hun. Really was good to hear from you, though! My fingers are crossed for you!


smilanatu--I missed you yesterday!!! Hope you did something fun while playing hooky yesterday! Unfortunately anytime you play hooky from anything there's always tons of work to make up--you should see my living room floor since I played hooky from vacuuming yesterday! Have a great day!

plc--Hey baby mama! Calm, relaxed, and positive.....(oh, and sticky too, of course!).... these vibes are coming via cyber space..... Can you feel them?


mollycat--Hey cycle buddy, sorry again about AF, she's actually going very easy on me so far, knock on wood... Hope she's going just as easy on you!

AJC--Hope all those caught that egg!


Issy--How's those nips today? lol.... I'm praying hard for you, hun!


Hugs for everyone--sorry for those not mentioned, but you're always in my thoughts! Good luck, positive sticky vibes, and baby dust to all!

[Canary]

Jen-
OH NO!! We posted at the same time and I have just read about the duckies. I was not being insensitive in my above post, cos I thought that they were all still alive. I dont think that they often all survive in the wild, so maybe it was just nature's way...
Look after the last one, I know that you will.