Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #2 April '08

**jen805** · April 27th, 2008, 06:02 AM

mmteacher--Woo hoo--get busy, lady! I think I know what you'll be doing tonight!

Wish I could help you on your O question. The day I had watery CM my chart changed showing it was a fertile day, so BD away!!! Good luck catching the eggie! :woot:

AFM... Loved that site I went to today, makes me wish I had bought another test while I was downtown a little while ago! Still having some weird twinges on my left which I've never noticed before. A couple sharp, stabbing pains then it was gone. Then I'll feel a little crampiness, and think, here comes AF, then that disappears! Now I have this weird pain in my left armpit, not really my armpit, but more on the side--but still near my armpit (

if that makes any sense at all!) When I push on it, it kinda feels like a sore muscle, but I haven't done anything strenuous that might cause this feeling--it even goes into the side of my left bb. And the best part of this site for me was how many women had tested negative--in some cases 3-4 times they got BFN, but ended up being pg! So now I'm starting to feel like there's a little hope for me still, but then my more cautious side tells me I'm just fooling myself, there's just no way...

I even took a nap on the couch yesterday--which is NOT like me at all! Emotions have been up, down, and all around, but that's common during this time, so that's no real sign for me. Even the irritability seems a little more of my norm lately--my poor family, I just can't seem to help it! Nipples still slightly sore and tingly... Argghhh! I'm home-bound for the day now, so no testing today for sure... maybe I'll buy one tomorrow if I go out! Or maybe AF will start before I have to bother! Ok, I feel like I'm rambling and just going back and forth, could I be, or no? Sorry gals, thanks for letting me get it out! Had to laugh when I was checking that other site out at how many of those women used HPT's from the Dollar Store! You may remember our posts about those tests... apparently some of them do work! And some of them even turn + after the initial -, and they were actually right! Can you believe it????

Magda · April 27th, 2008, 08:20 AM

Hi Ladies,

Hope you are all enjoying your weekend. It has been a couple of weeks since I posted. I read your posts everyday but but I just have not been able to post because I have been trying not think about my pregancy too much.

A lot has happened here I won't get into too many personals bc my husband is waiting for me to watch an English film, he is English.

Anthonysmom: Congratulations on you BFP, I am so happy for you.

Bettyboop: So happy that af finally arrived. Happy Bd'g.

Jen805: I think your symptoms sound really good. GL.

NicksterUK: Wow 14 weeks that is awesome, so happy for you.

Megsmum: welcome and gl thismonth.

AFM: I have been feeling really good.One good thing is that the last time I was pg I had a brown discharge the whole time which I know realize it was because there was something wrong with the baby. Well this time no discharge.

I am alittle worried because I went for my first us at 7wks 1 day. The gestational sac was present measureing at 6wks 5days, but too early to see bub. Well today I had my 2nd us at 7wks 5days, still no bub and now the gestational sac measured 6wks 3 days. I have to go and take more bt on monday since the lab was closed today to compare hcg levels from tuesday. So I still feel pg and I am so hoping that everything is going to be fine. Has that ever happened to anyone here, I would love to know.

Anyways I have to go my hubby is looking at me.

**AJC** · April 27th, 2008, 10:20 AM

mmteacher - last month I had copious amounts of ewcm at cd 13 and I O'd on cd17. Will be interesting to see what happens this month. It's so hard to plan bd isn't it. We were thinking cd15 - cd18 this month but that 'what if' factor is always there, what if I O early? Good luck and I hope you catch the eggie this month.

jen - thanks for the tww website details. i'm going to save it until I am actually in the tww so hopefully it makes it go a little faster. Sounds like your body is playing tricks on you this month. Hope it's a BFP.

megsmum - sorry to hear that you've had such a tough time over the last 6 months. Sounds like you are back on track and hopefully you'll have your BFP and healthy pregnancy shortly. Glad you have a good fs, a good fs is priceless.

Nickster - so nice to hear from you. Wow 14 weeks, time flies (probably not fast enough for you). Glad bub still has that lovely strong hb. Stay in touch....

mollycat - hoping af stays away on May 1st. GL.

for everyone

for everyone!

**AJC** · April 27th, 2008, 10:23 AM

Magda -

I think sometimes it depends what angle they are seeing the sac on. GL for the next scan & BT. Lots and lots of

**tempus moriendi** · April 27th, 2008, 11:04 AM

Hi everyone. Haven't been able to post in about a week, but I've still been thinking about you all. June and the end of this @#$% school year can't come soon enough to please me!

issy02 & megsmum: best of luck

Mel A & smilanatu & jodsan: sorry about AF

tina_k: good luck with your new job

Trac73 & Magda: keeping you in my prayers and let us know how you are

ll80: glad to hear some good news!!!

Abbey B: I'm sorry you're going through this. has dh always been squirrely about ttc, or just this month?

jenushka: I've found that the less I talk about my cycle, the more dh is "interested" wink wink

jen805: sorry about AF.
but regarding your earlier question--I know a woman who's pregnant now andher doc kept her on baby aspirin so she wouldn't clot inappropriately (but I"m NOT dispensing medical advice, just relating a story)

AJC: keeping you in my prayers

mmteacher: you can have several days of cm before you ovulate. I always had cm for several days before my temp went up

**Trac73** · April 27th, 2008, 12:53 PM

Hello ladies
Just a quick catch up to let you know how i am.
I have been having dizzy spells again but feeling very nauseous all day. I don''t think it is an ectopic as i believe i would know by now and there is differnately no signs. I am now 7 weeks and 1 day according to my calculations and this is the furthest we have ever gotten together. I am feeling like this one will be ok. we are having an u/s in a couple of weeks to figure out correct dates. Am feeling nervous about that but trying not to worry just yet.
I am keeping my fingers crossed for everyone here and am thinking of you all always