Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #2 April '08

[smilanatu]

We are so open to learning new things! I love this group!

jen...wish I could help with the chart but I don't use it...I input AF info on mymonthlycycles and it gives me an approximate date of O...that's as good as it gets for me...no charting or temping.

Emmy-Lou...good luck in your TWW!

MegsMum...here's hoping you come back from holiday w a BFP!

Canary...sometimes a little fun and relaxation is what leads you to a BFP!!!

jenushka...LOL...they never protest too loudly! I am cinvinced it's why we haven't conceived yet he wants to bd all the time!

AJC...get that eggie gurlie!!!

plc1805...I have already said it BUT I'm just so stinkin' happy for you!!! Stay as long as you like...but you have to promise to try and relax and enjoy...

Everyone else...

[seenabeena]

It's been quite some time since I jumped online and it sucks to see that this thread is still going. I wish one day I would come in here and everyone had fallen pg and no one else had suffered a MC ~ what a nice day that would be. We are still TTC hopefully this month is the month for us. I have been so moody and aggitated since loosing our bubba and I don't mean to take it out on DH, but unfortunately he is bearing the grunt of my emotional and hormonal rollercoaster . . . . . when will it settle down!!!???!!!

[mollycat]

seenabeen - sometimes it does seem like a rough rollercoaster, can only assure you that slowly it does seem to be a little better. It's not something you can ever forget, but it will make you stronger, Unfortunately our DH's or DP's seem to take the brunt of all our emotions.

I've got the same wish - that no-one else will have to join this thread and the mods can close it down and I really don't like to see new names in here, but am glad that they have found us, as this type of support makes it easier for all of us.

for you, take a deep breath and remember we are here for you at any time. Hope this is your month (and all of us still TTC) so I'm throwing some more around so we can all catch some.

For the rest of you with BFP's - here's some while we sit back and watch you all get FAT bellies.

[jen805]

smilanatu--Tried the place you mentioned and it still gave a range of dates that were fertile, but was able to actually pinpoint an O day! :woot: Looks like I should O next on May 17, but fertile 14-18. It's cool, too, b'cuz I put in date from AF in Mar. and it showed me that I O'ed on the day this month that I had the watery CM! Coincidence? I think not! Obviously I know that it's an approximate, but it's nice to actually see a day that says O! Thanks for the tip, even though I'm sure it was unintended!


seenabeena-- this will be your month! I know how you feel about being moody and agitated, I've been the same way since the m/c. I've even noticed I have much less patience for my kids It's a tough hand we were all dealt, and it just takes time to get all those emotions under check. I'm sure your DH understands how rough things have been for you, and that it will get better as time goes by. Glad to see you're back!

[AJC]

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[jenushka]

Emmy-lou! seems like "o" happened on the same day for us - how's that for cycle buddies! Double for us. Just reaching for the fast forward button on the remote for this 2ww!

AJC - babydust very welcome .... here's some more to top up supplies

Jen - you are such a champ! I know it must have been hard having the wacky cycle and a little disappointing getting AF but your positive attitude keeps everyone's spirits up. Thank you!

smilinatu I love this group as well! It makes me smile...

hi and to jen, mollycat, seenabeena and canary and anyone else out there

afm - I have the m/c follow up appt with my ob tomorrow morning where we may be able to find out why we lost bub (if they were able to do pathology). Even though I know it will bring closure, am still feeling a bit nervy about it. I think because I have to revisit it all again? Its only been 7 weeks but feels like longer in my mind... ah well... will make sure I am very kind to myself tomorrow whatever happens.