Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss #2- June 2009

[coco1411]

I got my previous blood test results from the GP today when i went to get my refferal for the FS and I just thought i would share and see if anyone can enlighten me on whether the numbers are good??
I was in the luteal phae cd22 when this was done and is the chart before last month if you want to look..

In particular i was looking at my oestrodoil, i know its only one point over the reccommended but im wondering if this is why i am having trouble getting pg? I high Oestrogen level??

FSH: 3 (reccommended or expected range 2-12)
LH: 7.1 (reccommended or expected range 2-15)
OEST: 771 (reccommended or expected range 370-770)
PROG: 46 (reccommended or expected range 10.6-89.1)

I just made bacon & eggs with baby spinach for dinner before work, mmmmm yummy

[Anila]

Evening all.
coco i have no idea what anyof thoose numbers mean, sorry.

afm, i am now cd 44, and got a bfn with fmu, so i guess that spotting a week and a bit ago was not implantation.
Just wish af would show up now.

[Cherished]

I knew my lack of emotion and being OK with it all was too good to be true! Today I have been hit in the face by overwealing feelings of wanting a BABY RIGHT NOW!!!! I can't believe this has happend again

[maddison]

Cherished - Im sorry that you are having a tough day. It really isnt fair that you are going through this again.

[Anila]

ooh cherished hun, im so sorry, i know there is nothing i can say that will make it all better, but just know that u are loved and supported here from all of us.
Im sending u big squishy cyber hugs.
Please be gentle on your self today and try and relax.

[milly5]

Hi Ladies,

Cherished - sending you hugs Not sure what else to say, other than I'm thinking of you.

Coco - I have no idea ..... sorry. Though on the estridol - its only 1 point over and the range is up to 770 (its not like its one point over and the range is only to 5 IYKWIM? But then that is only me making a HUGE guess.

AFM - today I am cramming for my exam tomorrow. Wish me luck!! If you see me posting between now and tomorrow evening, tell me to go away and study!!

Cheerio and fingers crossed!!

[Anila]

Still no af, cd 45 today, really wish it would hurry up!

ok so i really thought that i od on cd 17-19, and that spotting doesnt seam like implantation any more, so i have no idea, maybe i didnt o at all, just wish i didnt have this stoopid miscarriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LittleOnes]

cherished, honey I've hesitated for over an hour posting hugs to you, I'm not sure if it would be ok. It feels so unjust and so ridiculously unfair that things are this way. Until I joined this thread I had no idea how merciless mother nature could be. Big to you and I hope your day improves and that when the sun comes out for you it surrounds you with rainbows.

anila, I'm sorry to hear that you still have no resolution. Perhaps a trip to the doc for that bt now? Surely he'll do one now? Beg, plead, cry, at least to find out if you are in luteal phase or not so that you know if you have ovulated... and while he's at it, to find out if you are pg.

Milly, good luck with the study and don't come back til the exam is done!!

coco - only a couple of days now and you will start to get some answers to what has been happening. I that they lead to happiness very quickly. I'm afraid I can't help with the bt results.

sunbeam, good luck to you and donor daddy. I know it will happen for you both.

For those mentioned and all my other lovely friends in here, thank you. I hope I have been even half the help that you have been to me. I feel I should move on but will keep an eye on you and hope to see you leaving here very soon.

[Vianna]

I knew my lack of emotion and being OK with it all was too good to be true! Today I have been hit in the face by overwealing feelings of wanting a BABY RIGHT NOW!!!! I can't believe this has happend again

[dellydoo]

Oh Cherished - I totally understand the RIGHT NOW thing! You try so hard to be zen and you read others experiences and feel sad for them and hopeful for yourself, but nothing prepares you for the all encompassing desire for a child. Peace to you sweetheart.
Coco - you have such a great attitude honey - BFP for you soon x
Milly - any news? Keeping everything crossed for you.
Vianna - Darling how are you holding up?
Superstarmumsy - you are not crazy, it is perfectly natural to want to name your angel.

Sorry to anyone I have missed. I am getting my hair dies today too (there must be something in the air). I had my last exam yesterday and drank too much wine last night - does anyone else get happy/sad about being able to have a drink? I had a scan and all the figures look fine and am thinking about demanding a laparoscopy - has anyone had any positive outcomes from having one - should I be doing this???
Thanks
Delly

[coco1411]

Dellydoo I am having an endoscopy with a laparoscopy if we're not pregnant this cycle. The pamphlet & the description from the gynae sounded VERY promising! She is going to do the Laparoscopy and check for any cysts, pollyps & endometriosis and fallopian tube blockages with the dye and anything else going on down there, and they're doing the Hysteroscopy to check out the cervix & uterus at the same time. Im so excited to be having some investigating! Just give your gynae the lowdown and yeah demand it. If not for TTC then to check for endo or whatever else...

Its day surgery and you'll be out of action for 2-3 days. Its keyhole surgery and you'll only have maybe 2-3 incisions. One being a camera through your belly button! How SCI-FI!!!

And yes, I get excited to be able to have a drink when i can hehe such as saturday night when i didnt know i was in my fertile time..Anthony & I went to a charity trivia night and downed a bottle of wine and he- 6 beers and then went in to town to the night club where we met and we had 2 vodkas each and reminicsed about how we met there and we went to the dance floor and kissed where we had our first kiss..the pecise time he had me hooked then we stumbled home and had a chambord and and went to sleep hehehe It was like we were teenagers!!!!! Not adults nearing our 30's TTC!

[Sunbeam]

Hello BB Girls,

milly-I don't get spotting at all but I did have a big temp drop just for the one day on dpo12 during my first pg. Don't give up hope its not over till a/f. If you don't get a/f and get a BFP at any point you might need to see your FS about progesterone as spotting/bleeding can indicate that this is low.

coco- think we are going to be in the TWW together so here's to BFPs.

Dellydoo- I definitely know what you mean about drinking it is a very bitter sweet consolation prize.

afm- still only a faintish on OPK yesterday but then big temp drop this morning so now I a have a new song "i o'ed, I o'ed, it's off to sperm I go hm hmh hmhm I o'ed I o'ed I o'ed"

[eliselouise]

Hi all i hope everyone is doing ok,

I know it has been a long time since i have been in here to chat but i have been very busy at work and have just not had a chance. I thought i would come in today for a chat as i am off work sick (well not really sick as such but very, very bad cramping like period pain).
I am still bleeding since my m/c which i dont know exactly when it happened but i do know i have been bleeding for 19 days straight and i am so over it.
I had a 2 week check up with my GP since being told of my loss and she has told me that it sounds like it is all happening now as i had very heavy clotting mon, tues and very bad cramping all week. I have another appt next tuesday and if the bleeding hasnt stopped i have to have D&C on wednesday so that the bleeding stops by itself.
Anyway enough of whingeing from me congratulations to zacsmum on your that is great news and hopefully we can see lots more of them in here in the near future.
Cherished hunny how are you, i feel a little connection to you as we were both in the jan babies and we both joined this thread at the same time. I was reading your post about thinking everything was going ok emotionally and then you had a couple of bad days, i done the same thing yesterday, thought i was fine and coping with everything really well and then yesterday when i went to the docs and got told i may have to have a D&C i just lost it, plus the pain i was in wasnt helping, but anyway we will get there and hopefully some good news will come along very soon.

Have just spent the last hour reading over all the threads since i have been in here last and would love to do some personals but get a little confused and lost as to whats going on with who, so ill have to try and get in here more often and really get to know you all coz i know you are all a great support network.

Anyway better get going i will be back soon to catch up on everything

Take care everyone
Talk soon

[Sunbeam]

Hey cherished- I know exactly how you feel one m/c is bad enough but to go through it again feels totally unfair. I can honestly say I felt much worse and much more cheated the second time so I know where you are at. Big hugs babe

Milly- good luck with the exam.

[Sunbeam]

Anila- cd45 is long but I o'ed and still made it to cd47 hang in there babe, a/f should be just around the corner. Hope she hurries cos given my long cycle we can still be in the TTW together then.

[Cherished]

maddison, Anila, milly & Sunbeam thankyou for your hugs girls they really do help even though you may think they don't

Smallfry don't be a DONKEY up until 10 days ago I was still posting in this thread and the ttc 6+ mth thread because I would have missed everyone! Hugs from you are just as welcome as hugs from everyone else and even better your's are surrounded by Rainbows Thanks beautiful girl and I know this one will be a forever baby for you xoxoxo

[milly5]

Hi ladies,
just a quick post, because I know I said I was studying...

Someone else I know just told me they were pg. Yay them, boo me.
sorry, just had to do that.

[Cherished]

I love you milly If it makes you feel better I am having a crap day too