Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss #2- June 2009

[Anila]

Anila - I am glad I have someone here with whom I started my journey with - you make it familiar - even though I wish the circumstances were different.

SuperstarMumsy, oh hun, thankyou, i agree, that i wish it was under different circumstances, i am very sorry that you have to be here, but will hold your hand all the way to a sticky bfp!

[milly5]

Milly I have seen temp drops on a BFP chart so it's not over until it's over iykwim... How long are your cycles normally?

Thanks for the hope Cherished, but I'm not so sure - feeling decidedly pre-menstral and crampy now
My cycles are usually 28 days - occaisionally 27 or 29, but usually 28, so AF would be due on Monday, that's why I'm so confused. And if I do spot (which I do sometimes, but definately not most of the time) it is usually only once or twice a day before.
Any suggestions anyone??

[coco1411]

sorry Milly, you're not going to like my answer...I spot for a bit then AF comes, and around this time of the tww for me, its destined to be over, so I throw big tantrums and cry (i really do!) and then im ok when i "bleed". Having said all that, i hope it is a bfp for you!

I am drinking my rasberry leaf tea, with some honey and Im about to go snuggle my hubby in my prewarmed bed, (i love electric blankets!) Hope everyone is going well!!

My sneaky ovulation did not get the better of me, I am so happy that I am comfortable with whatever the outcome of this TWW. I obviously want it to be a but if it isnt, Im going to have some investigating done so its all good!!!

Hope you're all well and good xxx

[Sunny Love]

Coco your attitude is just so refreshing!! I love it!!
Im going to try and take a leaf out of your book.
Goodluck in your chillaxed 2WW

[India's Mum]

Ferrals4- I dyed my hair a chestnut brown. I'd really like to do something a bit more dramatic and go more red but that would take a bit of maintenance to keep it looking good and I am hoping I will be pg soon and not able to dye my hair.

[Vianna]

I knew my lack of emotion and being OK with it all was too good to be true! Today I have been hit in the face by overwealing feelings of wanting a BABY RIGHT NOW!!!! I can't believe this has happend again

[dellydoo]

Oh Cherished - I totally understand the RIGHT NOW thing! You try so hard to be zen and you read others experiences and feel sad for them and hopeful for yourself, but nothing prepares you for the all encompassing desire for a child. Peace to you sweetheart.
Coco - you have such a great attitude honey - BFP for you soon x
Milly - any news? Keeping everything crossed for you.
Vianna - Darling how are you holding up?
Superstarmumsy - you are not crazy, it is perfectly natural to want to name your angel.

Sorry to anyone I have missed. I am getting my hair dies today too (there must be something in the air). I had my last exam yesterday and drank too much wine last night - does anyone else get happy/sad about being able to have a drink? I had a scan and all the figures look fine and am thinking about demanding a laparoscopy - has anyone had any positive outcomes from having one - should I be doing this???
Thanks
Delly

[coco1411]

Dellydoo I am having an endoscopy with a laparoscopy if we're not pregnant this cycle. The pamphlet & the description from the gynae sounded VERY promising! She is going to do the Laparoscopy and check for any cysts, pollyps & endometriosis and fallopian tube blockages with the dye and anything else going on down there, and they're doing the Hysteroscopy to check out the cervix & uterus at the same time. Im so excited to be having some investigating! Just give your gynae the lowdown and yeah demand it. If not for TTC then to check for endo or whatever else...

Its day surgery and you'll be out of action for 2-3 days. Its keyhole surgery and you'll only have maybe 2-3 incisions. One being a camera through your belly button! How SCI-FI!!!

And yes, I get excited to be able to have a drink when i can hehe such as saturday night when i didnt know i was in my fertile time..Anthony & I went to a charity trivia night and downed a bottle of wine and he- 6 beers and then went in to town to the night club where we met and we had 2 vodkas each and reminicsed about how we met there and we went to the dance floor and kissed where we had our first kiss..the pecise time he had me hooked then we stumbled home and had a chambord and and went to sleep hehehe It was like we were teenagers!!!!! Not adults nearing our 30's TTC!

[Sunbeam]

Hello BB Girls,

milly-I don't get spotting at all but I did have a big temp drop just for the one day on dpo12 during my first pg. Don't give up hope its not over till a/f. If you don't get a/f and get a BFP at any point you might need to see your FS about progesterone as spotting/bleeding can indicate that this is low.

coco- think we are going to be in the TWW together so here's to BFPs.

Dellydoo- I definitely know what you mean about drinking it is a very bitter sweet consolation prize.

afm- still only a faintish on OPK yesterday but then big temp drop this morning so now I a have a new song "i o'ed, I o'ed, it's off to sperm I go hm hmh hmhm I o'ed I o'ed I o'ed"

[eliselouise]

Hi all i hope everyone is doing ok,

I know it has been a long time since i have been in here to chat but i have been very busy at work and have just not had a chance. I thought i would come in today for a chat as i am off work sick (well not really sick as such but very, very bad cramping like period pain).
I am still bleeding since my m/c which i dont know exactly when it happened but i do know i have been bleeding for 19 days straight and i am so over it.
I had a 2 week check up with my GP since being told of my loss and she has told me that it sounds like it is all happening now as i had very heavy clotting mon, tues and very bad cramping all week. I have another appt next tuesday and if the bleeding hasnt stopped i have to have D&C on wednesday so that the bleeding stops by itself.
Anyway enough of whingeing from me congratulations to zacsmum on your that is great news and hopefully we can see lots more of them in here in the near future.
Cherished hunny how are you, i feel a little connection to you as we were both in the jan babies and we both joined this thread at the same time. I was reading your post about thinking everything was going ok emotionally and then you had a couple of bad days, i done the same thing yesterday, thought i was fine and coping with everything really well and then yesterday when i went to the docs and got told i may have to have a D&C i just lost it, plus the pain i was in wasnt helping, but anyway we will get there and hopefully some good news will come along very soon.

Have just spent the last hour reading over all the threads since i have been in here last and would love to do some personals but get a little confused and lost as to whats going on with who, so ill have to try and get in here more often and really get to know you all coz i know you are all a great support network.

Anyway better get going i will be back soon to catch up on everything

Take care everyone
Talk soon

[maddison]

Hello everyone....

Superstarmumsy - I hope you are feeling ok today. You are in my thoughts. Im glad you have a new ticker going. Best wishes for your TTC journey this month.

Eliselouise85 & Cherished - I hope you can both avoid having a d&c. How are you both feeling today? I had a natural m/c and never realised how common d&c's were.

Sunbeam - I love your song. I think a few of us are about to enter the 2ww. I am at cd13 and if my temp goes up again tomorrow then its started for me. Here we go again....

Coco - Loving your approach to the testing. Its so great that you are excited to get answers and feeling positive about it. Lets hope having a relaxing night out with your dh was all you needed to get that BFP this month.

Sorry to all who have finished their 2ww without that BFP we all crave. Bring on the next round. Wishing everyone

Hello to everyone i missed.... SammyP, Vianna, Dellydoo, Anila, Sunny, Milly5, Ferrals...... What a great bunch of women we have here.

[Cherished]

Hi girls. Just popping in to say that I am leaving BB. Thank you for all of your support and I really wish you all the best with your ttc journey xoxoxo

[coco1411]

So sorry you're leaving cherished. Im secetly praying that when everything is cool you'll come back into this little thread. Hope everything is ok and goes well for you! I sent you an email and forgot to say "from eliza/coco" so when you get a crazy email its just me hehe

[eliselouise]

Cherished so sad to see you go hunny, was great to chat with you in the short time we did. I hope everything goes well with you and you get what you want and deserve very very soon
maddison thankyou so much for your support i to didnt realise how common D&C's were i was hoping for it all to happen naturally and still have my that it will. As to how i am feeling today, emotionally im alot better but still have the worst pains, have had naprogesic and nurofen plus but not really helping all that much. and as for the bleeding this morning i thought it was easing up as there was hardly anything there but just got home from down the street and was chockas and overflowing (sorry for TMI), not very nice at all, but anyways ill get there.
Hope everything is going ok for you and as i said havent got to know who is at what stage so i will get to know you all over the next few weeks or so (hopefully we all wont be here for to much longer

Take care everyone, talk soon

[dellydoo]

All the very best Cherished - you deserve wonderful things
Sunbeam - your song is fabulous
Coco - I love your Saturday night story - the dance floor pash!
Elise darling I am so sorry what an awful thing - I hope the bleeding stops by itself but if not maybe the D&C will mean you can start trying again.

All the best
Delly

[India's Mum]

Cherished - you will be missed. Best wishes to you for your future. I hope you come back if you feel the need to talk again.

Today when I was shopping I came across the Baby Alive doll I had planned to buy my DD(21mths) as a present from the baby when it arrived. It was on special and I couldn't resist it. I feel more optimistic about it today though. That maybe there will soon be another baby to give it to her.

[Sunbeam]

Cherished- sorry to see you go I wish you lots of luck for the future.

eliselouise- sorry the bleeding is not good today and the pain is bad too sounding like you may be able to avoid a d&c though if it carries on like that. Take care hun.

Loving seeing peoples pictures on their signatures will try yo put one on too.

afm-okay BIT confused. Temp drop this morning and nothing on OPK today even though I did two? Going to do another when I get home but going to inseminate tonight and tomorrow anyway because of temp drop. Please please let my egg hatch come on little you can do it.

[coco1411]

Sunbeam, sounds like you're ovulating!!!! GET TO IT!!!