Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #3 May '08

[pbstar]

morning all

hey jen- you are a champ for doing that list. i couldn't believe how many BFP's we've had in such a short space of time, it really hit me that we are all going to get there, it will just take some time.

i guess you can add me to the TWW now, am pretty sure am about to o any second now...am exhausted because we have been BDing like crazy for the last 6 days, i always seem to o on CD19 but for some reason i get scared i will o early so i start early and wear myself out (not to mention DH). anyway, next month i will hold out a bit longer!last night and today i have felt some o pains on both sides, have watery CM and my temp took a dive. so i got one more crazy session in and now i am going to relax! DH is cute though, he says we are going to keep going every day for the next week just in case- at least it might keep me distracted from going crazy in the TWW!

i have been out of action for a few days so need to catch up on all the posts before doing personals- just want to send a big to all, hope everyone is doing well.

xo

[mollycat]

Extension Update - the builders moved out yesterday YAY. They'll be back in to do a few little things, but all the spare timber and building stuff has been taken away. The room is ready to paint (we just have to find a spare hour or two). The new laundry/bathroom still has to be tiled - which is happening on Wed, then the plumbers will be back. The electrician came in yesterday and we have power and lights. SO, mostly finished with just a few more details to do. Should be done by the weekend.

AFM - still don't know where i'm up to, have appoint with gyno on Thurs, so will get the results of bt then and try to find out what my body is up to.

Jen - I love your list (look at how many BFP's we have on this thread).
PBStar - all the best catching that egg.
Betty - good luck with that scan today, hoping it will show the big O is about to happen for you.

[plc1805]

JEN HONEY YOU ARE LEGENDARY!!!! The only complaint i have about ur list is that u r not on it!!!!

[jen805]

Hey plc--Went back and added my name to the TWW list! Thanks for thinking of me!


mollycat--Good luck with your appt. on Thursday! :woot: your house is almost done!!!


pbstar--I added you to the TWW! Sounds like you've been keeping DH busy Catch that egg little , catch that egg!

[AJC]

Morning ladies

Just wanted to catch up and spread some

jen - WOW - that list. You have excelled yourself this time. Only 1 thing will make it better and that is when everyone has BFP next to their names, & then their babies names next to that. I read that it is safe to take up to 200mg of b6 per day. I was worried that I started on too high a dosage. I guess if you start lower then you could always increase it if you don't see any improvement. I've actually cut right back now because I've read that it can cause defects on the forming bubba (arm & leg).

Bettyboop - GL for your appointment today, i hope you get excellent results.

tinak - I always say 'never say never' too. This month you'll probably be more relaxed because you don't think it will happen. That is when it probably will happen!

Acria - don't blame you wanting to hold off testing. It's sooo tempting isn't it! I held off so long last month that when I finally did test my heart was pounding I was so nervous.

Abbeyb, issy & jenushka. happy bding and I hope you all catch the eggies this month. jenushka - love the POAS website!

mollycat - GL for your appointment on Thurs.

pbstar - Good luck! Hope the tww flies by.

Sorry if I've forgotten anyone. Have a great day.

[Jodsan]

Jen, light cramping for a couple of days sounds like O to me. Some months I cant tell what side it is from either. One thing I am wondering about now if whether you are ovulating again. Do you know much about lunar fertility? I didn't really know anything about it until a few months ago when I O'd a week early. I had sharp pains in my right side for a couple of hours and I remember thinking it felt like O pains but thought it couldn't be. Then I didn't get any pains whatsoever when I was due to O (and I always O on day 14 evey single month), so I thought I'd look into it further. I went online to find out about it and came across the Jonas theory - and worked out that my lunar time was to the hour of when I felt the O pains. So I'm a bit of believer now. If you google Jonas theory or lunar calendar - you will come across a website that does your calculation for free based on your date and time of birth - dont pay for it. Worth a look.

Big hello to everyone else - I'll have some more time in the morning.

[bettyboop]

love the list , great to see where everyone is at. had scan thought i was day 14 but scan showed i will not 0 for another week atleast day 21 which is strange for me. dont know what my body is doing , lining is 4mm , that is good for me. fingers crossed for the TWW.

[jen805]

Hey Jodsan--You mentioned the Jonas method in the Gender swaying thread about a month and a half ago, and it peaked my curiosity. I checked it out and had sent you a post with some questions, but that was when you were on a break for a month. So I checked it out again this morning... the conception calendar came up May 17, 12:34 am, G?, risk 2. Now we did BD on the 17th, which was supposed to be the day that I O'ed--but it wasn't at 12:34 am! Does that mean that's the only day and time this month that I could get pg? Then I checked the lunarium, and if I'm correct it goes by your moon sign, right? I'm a Pisces, but guess my moon sign is Leo, so then another calendar comes up and the only day that has Leo on in is May 10 @ 06:11. The numbers under those for the same date are 19:38 7 d. Not sure what that means!? Didn't BD on the 10th, but we did on the 9th, and also the 11th-17th. So now I'm a little confused as to what this means! Especially when I think I had O pains last night--seemed like CM became a little watery and thought I noticed a few pulls or twinges on my left--they were quick twinges, though, they didn't stick around. I rather liked the Jonas calendar, where at least it showed the date being on the day I was supposed to O (and a possible girl!)! After inputting the watery CM on FF, it of course, changed yesterday into a fertile day (CD27) but AF still supposedly due on 31st. I don't know... guess I just wait it out and see (and hope and pray!) One other question, (sorry I know I've got a lot ) If either one of those days were supposed to be days that I conceived, I should definitely be feeling some sort of symptoms by now, right? Just wondering if the feelings I felt last night could've been due to being pg instead of O? I tend to always have a more watery type of CM when pg... ok, I feel like I'm rambling, so I'll just wait to hear back from you to see what you think! The only bad thing about you being in Australia is that you're asleep right now, and I have to wait at least 8 hours to hear back from you!!!
Thanks, Jodsan, I really appreciate any info or theory you can give me! We should call you Dr. Jodsan!