BekZ, there is NOTHING to be embarassed about, this is EXACTLY why we are here and why we can talk like this here when we can't to people IRL - they don't get it (not their fault of course!)
When I had Joe (my last) and we were TTC, I tested from the day before I was due (actually maybe the day before the day before I was due ) until the day I came on (told you I bought in bulk!!) - I know I will again, this is just me and how I cope (luckily the website I bought sticks from was cheap and reliable!!)
If I had had this website then, I would have shouted as soon as I saw a +ve, however faint, because I would have known everyone would understand.
IF (and it is still an IF) you aren't pregnant, we are still here and you are still TTC BUT let's wait and see!
BekZ - try not to worry about the spotting (although I know that is easier said than done!), it is probably nothing to worry about, and I reckon that you are def pg and it is not just leftover HCG, as you wouldn't have that much HCG left after this long, and your chart clearly showed O, so you must be pg! I am thinking of you and I sure it will all be ok.
Alex - what a nightmare weekend, you poor thing. The hosp bit really is so traumatic, and it sounds like you had a pretty terrible experience there. I am glad you had a good registrar, and I am with you on the stats - sometimes it sounds so matter of fact, but in a way it is reassuring to know how likely m/c is, and kind of gives you hope that eventually, it has to work out if you just keep trying! I am glad to hear that you are feeling more positive today, that really is a lot to go through.
Jen - temping can be pretty confusing at first. Can you link your chart so we can have a squizz? I think it actually doesn't work for some women, so don't be too worried, but I know it is frustrating.
Leyla & Tinsel - thanks for you kind words. It really is great knowing that I can come here and talk to you girls when no one else understands.
SP - how are you going? I hope you are having a good time away. I reckon I would TTC too if I had to wait for an OB appointment, esp with long cycles. Waiting is the hardest thing when going through this.
Satya - how are you going today?
Well, I am kind of sorting things out with my friend. I ended up telling her how I felt and she has just replied and apologised for not telling me and said that she wanted a pg more for me than for her (she already has 2 girls) and she was hoping I would tell her I was pg and then she could tell me she was too. When my DH told her DH about what had happened with us, she felt she couldn't tell me as she thought she would be rubbing it in my face. She said that she just wants me to not be unhappy anymore and that she will share everything with me for now on . I don't want her to feel she has to tell me things -it is up to her, I am just upset that had lied to me so many times. She could have just not said anything, I knew she was doing a pg test three wks ago, as I gave her some of my tests, and I would never had asked the outcome - it is up to her. But outright lying is different and harder for me to accept. Anyway, she has asked me to come for dinner tonight and I am sure all will be fine. I just wish things didn't have to be so hard. It would so lovely to go through pg together, but I guess yet again it was just not meant to be.
Hi everyone,
Bun-Glad to hear you have sorted out everything with your friend, although she still did not do the right thing by you in the first place really, but at least it is being sorted out now, this will also help to make you feel a little better as 1 less thing to worry about.
Alex-Sorry to hear about your loss, we are all here for you though & willing to support you. I feel so much better since I have been chatting in here as there is a lot of support from everyone. You can look forward to lots of BDing now and also easter you can rest up a bit.
Bekz-Thinking of you now. You need to not stress too much I am sure all will be ok. You need to not be embarrassed, we are your BB friends, don't be embarrassed with us we are here to support you.I was initially worried about when baby would be born but after discussions in here I now just hope for a baby fullstop, I don't mind when.
Jen-I have just started temping today, I am assuming you eventually get used to the FF chart, that is my biggest worry at the moment. I will keep you posted how I go. I am a little concerned about getting the same time each day but I will try my best. It is all very new to me.
I now know why I am not pg when i look at my chart it says I should O on the 10.04, from my own "knowledge" I had worked out I would not O until 13.04. So lucky I joined here & you guys helped me with FF and charting, I have been bding at the wrong times how dumb am I. I always thought it would be so easy to pg my o my how foolish am I.
) until the day I came on (told you I bought in bulk!!) - I know I will again, this is just me and how I cope (luckily the website I bought sticks from was cheap and reliable!!)
BUT let's wait and see!
how dumb am I. I always thought it would be so easy to pg my o my how foolish am I. 
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