thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss April 2007

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Bright
    972

    Hi everyone!!!

    Salt, just popping in quickly to confirm that YES, it's fine to have an internal U/S when you are pregnant. I've had one myself. In the very early stages, sometimes the embryo is too small to see with a normal u/s, but is clear with an internal....hope that helps.

    Hope everyone is having a great day...xxxx

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2006
    Perth
    766

    Morning girls,

    Janeo - let us know how the naturopath goes. That's something I wouldn't mind doing if it looks like it could help.

    Satya - I haven't used MB so not sure what that ferning means. It is definitely ok to have an internal scan when pg - I had one with my first pg. Also - at the scan, they will be able to tell you where you are at with your cycle, if you have O'ed or not or if you are about to. Hopefully that will help clear up where you are at! I hope AF doesn't arrive before then.

    SP - I am the same - my eyes get sooo puffy when I have been crying. I just keep telling people I have hayfever or a cold! Not sure how long that is going to cut it for. I also have those feelings when I see pg people and think that is where I should be. Princess Mary is due around when I would have been with my first, so I can't stand seeing pics of her in magazines! Why can it work out for her and not me - come on, share some luck around, she is already a princess!

    Well, we are not TTC this cycle. Last month DH decided that we should keep trying this cycle, and I was unsure as I feel that it will never work on our own. But last night, when I thought it was the right time to BD, he said no and that we shouldn't try this cycle. Anyway, I just turned away feeling rejected and confused, and then he said 'so you only wanted me for a baby, not for me?'. Sooooo awful, I said I wanted him for him, but as we have a 100% success rate at achieving pg each time we try, and we had no protection, then we couldn't DTD. He agreed, and he is not angry or anything, but I feel soooo awful. I hate that things have come to this - we can't just have fun and let it happen naturally like most people and I am so sick of this hanging over our heads. Don't get me wrong, we DTD just for fun at all times of the month, but I feel so terrible right now. I agree with him, there is probably no point in trying, as I feel it will just die if we get pg, and that we definitely need some help. I just hope that my dr has a plan tomorrow because I am starting to get really sick of this.