Yeh! murrycod i new i could count on you to come back i had to email you at home because as you know some things we say will be edited here.
All the testing will put your mind at ease and no more wondering what if so it will be ok and i hope you get some answers that can be easily fixed and then a BFP will follow soon after.

TTCALC-your house sounds like mine i have my 3 boys my stepdaughter my eldests sons girlfriend my youngest sons 2 mates and my stepdaughters 2 friends all over for the day
GOD GIVE ME STRENGTH!!! so that is 9 kid's and hubby and i.

Jellylove-sorry it was a BFN hopefully just a bit early.

Mathewsmum-this will all turn out for the best i think you will be our next escapee to the BB thread.

Kitfaerie-i just stuffed myself with Brie and bickies yum! yum! and i know how the wrenching feeling feels i have that when i see DH looking at babies and little tots stumbling around i can see the longing in his eyes and i want to give him that i want to feel that bond between the two of us that we created something beautiful together i know we had Abbi but it's not the same.

Bons-aww sorry you feel a bit meh and DH wont be home to make you feel better
And blue american staffy awwwww! so beautiful i love that colour not an easy colour to find though i absolutely love my american bulldog i will post some pics of her later for you to show your DH.

AFM- well my fertile body is kicking in i am on day 7 and my Estrogen is already rising my CBFM is reading high today so i will have fertile signs for the next week but DH and i will only BD every 2nd day until i have my LH surge then we will go for it.
Good god i am going to be exhausted.