Cherished, I m sorry you feel that I was attacking Coco..... its just not something I would do. I was trying to bring peace back to this thread by clarafying a comment that was causing angst. I believe that the posts between Coco and myself managed to clear that up and as you can see by Coco s reply she didnt feel attacked.
I agree totally with you regarding the support in here for each other. It needs to be there on all levels and yes we need to be able to express our opinions but more importantly is that we do so in a manner that is polite and curteous to all members regardless of where they are in their life journey.
I have read many of your posts before and admire your positive outlook and I agree that the general vibe of this thread is not the most pleasant at the moment. This thread for as long as I ve been around (which is just under 2 years......under a different ID) has been the greatest form of support for all women at all stages of their journey. New, Old, PG, TTC.... It has never mattered where they were at. Now there seems to be a division and we need to all put that division behind us. We are all wearing those same pair of shoes.... we all mourn the loss of our angels.... we all hope and pray for that BFP... and then we all hope and pray as we wait out that 40 weeks that this time..... this time we will be blessed.
Lets not be divided ladies...... its tough enough out there were people dont understand what we are going through and what we have had to deal with........ without coming in here and it feeling like it does at the moment. I know everyone s emotions are close to the edge... how can they not be considering our journey so far.... but lets stick together and lets get this thread back to where it always has been...... a place of loving, empathy, thoughtfulness and respectfulness. A place where we are ALL here for one another.
I hope you get the pearl baby you dreamed of..
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It was such a wonderful place for me, supportive and a true lifesaver at a time when I didn't want to hear, think or see another pregnant woman ever again. At the time I didn't even notice that pg woman were even posting in here and the tickers weren't a problem for me either HOWEVER I can totally see where flowerchild is coming from that many woman are probably TOTALLY shattered by them! Since we had a reminder to turn off pg tickers in this thread I have read B@#%*y post after B@#%*y post and it has just reminded me how nasty things can get when woman don't just love and care for one another regardless of all the crap that is going on externally. I was even disappointed to see that cocos post came under attack 'for the using the wrong words' when she was just being honest with her feelings and probably just saying what all those newbies (in particular) feel when they join this thread. What makes me feel even worse is that those 6 or 7 new woman over the last week who are experiencing the worst hell of a time of their lives are probably not feeling comfortable to even read this thread let alone post in it as it is not looking very welcoming but more like a political s@#t storm 
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This last one DH had a stressful few days with his mum and work (plus banks and settlement on our new house, and DS being sick....)so we missed bd'ing close enough to O. It's not that he's against getting the timing right (or feeling used - he always asks when O is due, even when we agree not to talk about it!!?) but at the moment there are so many other things going on that there seem to be 'interruptions' that can't be forseen...The only thing that can reasonably be predicted is that something will happen!!! But in my new (attempted) 'zen' space I'm trying to let some of it go....
...... hats off to your DH if he can 'perform' after such a romantic ummmm proposal..... 
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