MM - Im so very sorry it wasnt the result we were all hoping for, I dont know what else to say....You are in my thoughts xxx
Ferrals & Millyd - My fingers are crossed for you xxx
Alice - I agree with Kitf, a toilet role was showing restraint! Hope you're feeling better about your eating changes and DH remembers the soy milk next time
Loops - I have nfi about temping but let us know how you go, other ladies say it helps!
Saffy - Good Luck with the clomid! We will be here when crazy saffy comes out
Hugs to everyone I have missed.....
Missing SVN.....we need a laugh!
AFM - Just waiting to O and hoping my DH is here for it and not too exhausted to DTD Have been joking with him about a syringe and a cup but now im thinking seriously about it!!!
xxx
thanks everyone for your lovely supportive words...craftymummy-your symptoms sounds promising..afm-even though dr have said that i wont fall pregnant naturally now with my tubal problems,i'm still going to buy the opk & try this month,after15 months of ttc,i feel i can't just miss a month.
Mathew's Mum: so sorry that the embie didn't stay with you. I'm sure you've done nothing wrong but i know how hard it is to remind yourself of that. After my mc my Dr told me very clearly: "This is not your fault". I automatically thought "yes yes I know that". But Iater I'd find myself thinking maybe it was my fault because I did this or that or the other. And every time i'd remember my dr's words "It's not your fault". So...it was a very wise thing of him to say. I hope you will keep reminding yourself it's not your fault.
Millyd: thanks for your lovely words and i am soooo you get your bfp this month so you don't have to deal with that deadline.
Jenna: sorry for AF. Hope you feel better soon
SPF: great to hear you are 14wks. But i know it's still hard to meet babies due when yours was. That happened to me last week. I felt sad and a bit wierd...like i was having to 'fake it' a bit in terms of saying all the right happy things to the mother. Hope your meeting goes ok.
ALice: good on you for courage in talking to someone. lol at idea of nutritional psychosis!
TTCALC: wow you are organised! Very impressive. Good luck with everything you have on this week.
Kit: interested in your experience re EWCM. Mine is also good ATM, 2 days before O is due. Wasn't sure how much in advance of O EWCM starts.
Bons: hope your DH is around to 'drown' the egg (to quote someone else)! I can see how the syringe would be tempting but i'm not sure it works unless it's pretty close in time to when DH DTD...in which case you'd be together anyway and wouldn't need the syringe. (I might be wrong...OThers might like to correct my biological knowledge!)
Hi to everyone else i missed
AFM Going to do another OPK tonight. Got 'nada' last night... Only one line. BUt it is a bit early.
Matthews Mum I am so so sorry, my heart dropped for you when I read your post. You haven't done anything wrong, if only we could control things that much, then we wouldn't be here! Please be gentle with yourself, and take things easy for the next week. Your body has been through alot, not to mention your emotions, let yourself grieve and honour the time you've had with your precious little embie, no matter how short. I wish so much I could make things different for you. You'll have MurryCod and I to keep you company in May but don't 'think about that now. Lots of love to you xx Alice
Mathewsmum-so sorry it wasn't ment to be i was hopeful all we can do is keep trying we are all here for each other.
Possum magic-LOL it's the only thing i could think of to describe how more poor old egg would be after all the BDing hope you get your pos OPK soon.
Will be back later for more persies but just thought i'd tell you today DH and i went to play with Mowgli the breeder has 11 kittens from 2 litters and once a week i go over to play with them until i bring my furbaby home anyway all are sold except 2 mowgli's sister and one other.
she was the pick of the litter almost bald almost no coat at all but very fine rippled fur you can hardly see with a blue cream speakled colour she is so shy and gentle and just watches the other kittens play so no one has brought her anyway today while i was there she came over to me and wanted a cuddle and then had a little play with DH she is soooo gentle the lady said she would love to keep her for herself but has to many breeding pairs so my DH picks up Mowgli and says would you like your little sister to come home with us aswell and pulls out the $600 dollars and pays for her and says we have 2 dogs that keep each other company so we have to have 2 cats to keep each other company and she is so affectionate we have to take her home.
So now we have 2 furbabies coming home next Friday we just have to come up with a name that suits her and not tell my mother how much we have paid for them she would kill me.
Matthew'sMum i'm so sorry. Understanding it's such an emotional rollercoaster ride month to begin with, but know that nothing you did or did not do, affected the outcome XX
The month after my stim was pretty crazy, your body is in exhaust mode, so please don't stress if this next natural cycle is a crazy one XXXX
Big huggs to you Darling, I trust that you will be kind to yourself, dust yourself off in a few days and focus on your goal again XXXX AF afrer a stim can be a bit heavy, so please take it easy XX
Ferrals, I have everything crossed for you!! Eeeek how super excitng!!!
THopes I agree with Mildaz, that number is fine X
I am so going to be left in here on my own aren't I ?!?
TTCALC, sweetdreams my lovely XXXXX
Loops, good luck with temping, I temp'd years ago and just used a digital thermometer from the chemist. Good luck with it sweetheart!XX
Are you planning on doing another cycle?
Possum, hope you get those 2 lines and catch that egg honey!XX
Millyd, wow, you too!! Babydust to you XX
Bons!!!! Oh dear I have the most vivid picture in my head right now, atleast better than the eggs though!XX
Crafty.........hmmmmm, your symptoms are sounding promising too!!!
alice-thank you for your wise words...possummagic-thank you,i hope you get that 'o' line soon...ferrals-thanks,your shy little kitten reminds me of my 'cuddles'.when we went for a viewing of a litter.He is just gorgeous,he is 9 now & still gets shy when people come to the house,beautiful nature though...murraycod-thank you,you are all so kind to me
Murrycod- i know god love him he is taking our mind's off ttc and bringing some enjoyment back into our lives i just added two pics of her to my last post have a look.
aw Ferrals!!!!!!!!! Your husband is ace - she's beautiful!! Pets really do seem happier in pairs so I think he was right.
Crafty are you pulling a sneaky BFP on us?? Woohoo that'd be great!
MurryCod - nah, reckon it'll be me but I'm not going to fight you for it!
Bons, Possums - get ready for the pants party
Saffy, hope the Clomid helps
Sorry for missing people - I'm meant to be making my dairy-free, wheat-free, sugar-free, potato-free, mushroom-free, fun-free (oops, did I say that?) dinner (that's without a glass of wine for inspiration too). Resentful? Nahhhhhhhh not MUCH just kidding - it's all good (if I keep telling myself that I will eventually believe it). **** here comes DH, better get going. Do you know that Kinky Friedman song "Get your biscuits in the oven and your buns on the bed"...bye!!!
Alice: I had to do a major detox last year - best meal I found was a gluten free Pizza Base with loads of vegies and organic tomato paste, I was allowed to have mozorella (how the hell do you spell it! LOL!) cheese, but I think there's vegan alternatives? Anyway, eating pizza made me happy, lol. There was also gluten free Mac and Cheese, dont know if it was fake dairy though? Good luck babe!
Ferrals: EEEEEEEEEeeee! She is just adorable! She needs a jungle name too to match her brother. Cats are way happier in pairs, I have a friend who has two ragdoll cats, he says they lie in each others arms (he calls it front cuddles, but he's a boy so he would). Lucky girl Oh the pats and purrs that are coming your way!
Possum Magic: Trying to send my mind way back to when I conceived Splat, I remember getting EWCM on Day 12 and I got the positive on Day 30, so I think I must've had EWCM a few days before O then too? Lets hope we both get BFGSP's this month! (Big Fat Ginormo Sticky Positives!)
MatthewsMum: *Hugs*
MurrayCod: Mwa xo
Crafty: Oh that would just be so awesome if you've got a bubba sneaking in! PLEASE!!!!!
AFM: Delirious with lack of food and way too much statistics. DH is on his way home with food. I asked for as healthy as he could get, but I bet he brings home KFC, lol. The Wii is gonna be so disappointed in me.
Alice-dinner sound sooo yummy NOT! it is horrible isn't it and there is not a great variety.
Kitfaerie-the photo dosn't do her justice she pounces around in the most gentle way and does the whole cat stretch thing which is funny i can't wait to bring them home and take my own photos of them playing.
And i agree she needs a cool name like her brother.
AFM- DH and i are having a lovey dovey night tonight although if DH keeps dropping his guts like he is right now the only loving he will get will be self administered (he stinks).
And i am feeling really good i feel like somthing is going on with my body my boobs are just incredably sore i bumped into hubby earlier and ouch they hurt and my belly feels crampy but different and on the oppisite side than i normally get AF pain so i and quietly excited.
matthewsmum - i wish i could help ease the pain and disappointment that you must be feeling right now. please know that you are in my prayers and im so sorry. sending you lots of love and hugs xx
thanks to the ladies that answered my question re progesterone. i really appreciated it, you put my mind at ease! my gyno rang back and said that levels over 10 were good, 20 were great and mine at 72.8 was fab! He also said that it could be a sign of pregnancy! i had cramping yesterday at 6dpo so just have to wait and see! BB's starting hurting today too!!
Ferrals, in Jungle book 2 there is a little girl, her name is Shanti...just a suggestion for Mowgli sister xxx
Glad your bbobs are sore, mine are tingly and i have lots of white mucus...its staining my knickers... sorry tmi, xxxx
T-Hopes-i was actually thinking it's a little high for a natural cycle progesterone can be high if you pop more than one egg or are pregnant lets hope your pregnant i was reading a lot on progesterone levels in the 2nd half of cycle because my boobs are so sore and the main reason for high progesterone was being utd.
Millyd-we thought of shanti but DH not to sure and also sarabi out of the lion king but DH dosn't like that so we will keep thinking if anyone has any ideas let me know.
Looks like we could have a breakout in the making! Good luck everyone x
Just so you don't think Im eating sand...dinner was oven roasted chicken with spices and sesame seeds and a green salad with olives, cucumber, and tomato. Not too bad! Now I'm going to make myself a hot chocolate with soy milk...well, can't be that bad! Nite all
Hee hee so much for staying away for a few busy days
PS Kit - hm will be looking for that pizza base and my fav character from True Blood is Eric, followed by Pam - they are hilarious in the books.
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but now im thinking seriously about it!!!
you get your bfp this month so you don't have to deal with that deadline.
I am so so sorry, my heart dropped for you when I read your post. You haven't done anything wrong, if only we could control things that much, then we wouldn't be here! Please be gentle with yourself, and take things easy for the next week. Your body has been through alot, not to mention your emotions, let yourself grieve and honour the time you've had with your precious little embie, no matter how short. I wish so much I could make things different for you. You'll have MurryCod and I to keep you company in May but don't 'think about that now. Lots of love to you xx Alice
Bons!!!! Oh dear I have the most vivid picture in my head right now, atleast better than the eggs though!XX
are you pulling a sneaky BFP on us?? Woohoo that'd be great!
just kidding - it's all good (if I keep telling myself that I will eventually believe it). **** here comes DH, better get going. Do you know that Kinky Friedman song "Get your biscuits in the oven and your buns on the bed"...bye!!!
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