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thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss April/May 2010

  1. #91
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    Mar 2010
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    Alice, pants party, hee hee lol.
    BTW Your meal sounds yum! Glad you found something gourmet!

    Ferrals, Murray Cod, Mathews mum, thanks! At least i get to POAS lots! Even if it isn't the exciting kind. Still waiting...

    Kitfaerie: yes please! BF-Ginormous-Ps!
    T-Hopes: pave the way for us please, we'll be right behind you!
    Millyd: You too!

  2. #92
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    Jan 2010
    Ohio
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    Possumm..
    hehe yeah im always trying to keep things orgainzed in some way or another..
    if i dont have it organized it will bother me till i get it done.
    (Exp) last nite i had 5 cups from the kiddos snack in the sink i got into bed all ready to go to sleep and i HAD to get back p to do them if not ivwould of been up all nite laying in bed thinking why i didnt do them,..LOL

    Court tomorrow.. little nervous.. i feel like im the one that is actuallyon trial..LOL

    AF got me last nite i knew she was coming soon as i read those results..

    off to get the kiddos from school here soon ..
    Good luck Fingers crossed for the waiting
    best wishes

  3. #93

    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Murrycod-i like sage how cute i will run it by DH.

    TTCALC-you sound like me i won't go to bed unless my kitchen is clean otherwise i lay there having an axiety attack over coachroaches having a feast on the dishes i use to be bad a real clean freak because the boys all had asthma when they were little so i was a maniac with vaccuming and dusting and throwing everything away a can't stand clutter i would never have animals in the house LOL look at me know two kittens coming home next week although one is practically bald and the other the shortest coat ever so i wont have to worry about hair anyway i have settled down a bit my DH had to get use to me constantly cleaning when he whinges i just say i was like this when you met me so get over it and go watch TV or come help me clean and he lets me go on my merry way.

    AFM-My temp is rising nicely 36.71 today so just the waiting game now.

  4. #94
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    Mar 2010
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    Looks like I am on the way out ladies, cervix is very open this morning

  5. #95
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    Apr 2010
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    Millyd- don't jump to conclusions yet hon,

    Ferals- your kittys are SOOO gorgeous, I love them, Sage is a great name too. I have brother and sister kittycats, they are besties and have never been apart, would never get just one now. Do you get foxtel? there was a show on last nightabout PGD IVF (is that what its called-you know what I mean) on the health channel. When are you testing?

    TTCALC-HA! my DH would love if I was a cleanaholic, he is in theory but is too lazy to actually do anything so I do it my way and he can like it or lump it!! Good luck to you this month x

    Possum- I get a thrill from POAS OPK as well, sad isn't it! hehe, hope you get your 2 lines soon then can go for it xx

    Alice- your meal sounds nice, hope it was yummy, I miss my glasss of wine w dinner too, oh well its good practice for when we get UTD!

    Iona- sorry AF is coming, its hard when you get your hopes up every month isn't it? hugs to you hon xx

    THopes- I was so excited to read your last post! all the signs look promising babe FX for you, please can these potential BFP's be contagious!!

    Kitfaerie- hows it going? Did you get KFC last night?

    Murrycod- how did your friend go? Hope it was good news for her, I know exactly what you mean xx

    Crafty-sounding good! I hope so much that this is a great BFP month for everyone, you deserve it x

    me- CD3, really heavy Af yesterday, thinking it is because I started chinese herbs this month, has anyone had this experience?
    to everyone

  6. #96
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    Dec 2005
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    I'm out girls, AF arrived over night

    Ferrals - fingers crossed that your temp keeps rising....will be here watching and waiting

    Millyd - oh hun I know how your feeling

    TTCALC - to you as well - looks like we are cycle buddies

    AFM: looks like another friend is going to announce she is pregnant in the next few days........

  7. #97
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    Oct 2009
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    Ferrals: Sage is a sweet name, Lol @ being a clean freak, I got through stages although there's always that time when I look around and think ''everything has to be perfectly clean RIGHT NOW!" and poor DH is usually in the middle of a cpu game or napping but he helps (it's really the safer option).

    Alice: Your dinner sounds much better than sand :P

    TTCALC: Good luck with court, you'll kick it in, your doing so well my dear xo

    Milly: I'm with Saffy, you never know! Apparantly CP is also one of the more unreliable indicators (so FF tells me!). Your not out yet darlin!

    Saffy: It was chicken burgers but it was from this lil store down the street that has free range chickens, so not as bad as KFC! I did eat a lot of chips though - they're my nemesis, I can't understand how ppl can ignore uneaten chips. So strange to me, lol. Maybe AF was heavy cos your having a big clean out? I hope it leads to a positive!

    AFM: I hate temping. Did some reading on FF and realised that my day 1 wasn't day 1 cos I got spotting in the evening and AF didn't show properly til the next day, so changed that. Then I realised how bad it is to have the heater on when temping, so had to discard some temps. Then I had to add notes to the ones from sat and sun (cos I drank fri and sat), so now, my chart looks flat. With an odd patch of EWCM that has nothing to do with O'ing. Bugger. So, now I'm just waiting to O. Stupid longer cycle. Scared I'm not ovulating

  8. #98
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    Apr 2010
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    Kit- my charts always looked sh*t, I do shift work too, thats why I gave up it was stressing me out too much. I gave my FS one of my worst charts ( we were camping and getting up at all different times) and you should have seen his face! I just use OPK's and go by them. I don't know how people regularly chart, I find it so difficult but saying that FF educated me a lot on different signs etc.
    Hope it becomes clearer for you, maybe eat a few more chips hehe they always make me feel better

    I'm going to get my haircut and coloured, will feel better after covering my grey regrowth!

  9. #99
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    Dec 2009
    Victoria
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    morning all!

    Ferrals - did some progesterone googling too! sounding good but certainly not getting my hopes up! Good temp rise for you too love! Mine also went up today! 36.80! PLease keep rising for us both!!!

    iona macca/TTALC - oh loveys, im sorry AF is here... its so crap! sending you a huge hug xx

    kit - oh love.... dont worry too much about FF, mine is saying that it isnt sure I o'd but i certainly did! I have the bloods to prove it! just try and be consistent with it ie same times everyday etc xx

    saffy - thanks lovely! When i started my chinese herbs 3 cycles ago, mine was medium - day1, heavy day2, med day3 then tapered off too light for a few days! much different to the previous ones i had after m/c! i hope that lining builds up nice and fluffy for you after AF leaves!! and thanks again for your comments yesterday! It helped me so much cause i was ready to have a melt down cause i didnt understand! xx

    millyd - i agree with Kit, dont worry about the cervix being open! not accurate! not out yet baby!!!

    possum - ooh i hope im paving!!! heheheh! please please please!

    alice / kit - Yeah watch TrueBlood too!!! Love it! Its tacky but still great! Very raunchy

    matthewsmum - still thinking of you beautiful, stay strong xx

    AFM - 8DPO for me and all good here, im going to POAS on Saturday even though it will prob be too early if anythings happening! had a temp rise this morn (yesterday was 36.65 and today 36.80!) and tonnes of CM, lots twinges and twangs on my left side since 6DPO, very hungry,and slightly sore boobs! And my skin is cleared up!

    Praying for BFP's for all of us!! Good luck to all the POAS'ers for the coming week

    Have a nice day! Melbourne has turned on another ripper of a day! Wish i wasnt woring so i could enjoy it!
    Last edited by T-hopes; April 22nd, 2010 at 10:11 AM.

  10. #100
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    Mar 2010
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    Hi girls, thanks for the reassurance, Dr Google has just confirmed too that soft cervix is not necessarily bad at this time either and as you said KF very unreliable source so I am going to leave it alone as other comments on the net said too much stimulation is not the best either...

    KF you crack me up, that sounds like something I would do. I didnt realise temping was such a drama!!! Taking in all those factors hahaha, I would have a chart that looked like yours I think xxxx thanks for the kind words xx

    Dory darling, how are you havent heard from you in a couple of days, I miss your energy in here, you have such a soothing presence xxx hope all is brilliant my darling

    Ferrals, I still have the sore bbs so thats a good thing, hows your skin, those pussy cats look so cute, and I am not a cat person, little bluey is so cute. Hey in Africans translated little blue is min blou, you could mowgli and minblou??

    Alice I have had no appetite lately and my poor family is suffering from lack of tasty dinners, you have given me inspiration to cook something yummy for them tonight, you dinner sounds delicious

    Iona hunny, sorry for that cow coming!!! She is what I like to call a skank!! hehehe hugs sweetie

    Saffy, thanks for your words of encouragement. I started my chinese herbs on last day of cycle so not sure of effects on AF but I have had abundant cm all month??? so I am certain its from CH. I usually am dry for a couple of days after AF but I had what waslike ewcm from the next day after AF?? so we just bd every day from then hahaha.

    Murraycod, I just read your name suggestion for mowgli sis, Sage is a great name, Also Sage is a very cleansing herb you can get sage sticks you burn them, to cleanse your home environment, what a beautiful concept that the new little kitty would add a cleansing energy to the household also...

    In other news, DH and I watched the Lovely bones last night. It was a beautifull but sad movie...It finished and we both sat on the couch I was bawling, he was crying like a normal person. I told him I felt so ripped off that our baby didnt get to have a life, not one breath....I am so scared ladies that we wont get our chance. PLease let it be that we do.
    Am off to chinese herbalist today for some more acupuncture. I hope he feels my pulse and says "YOure pregnant for sure!! good on you!!" hahahahaha I crack myself up!!!
    Love and light ladies
    xxxxxxxx

  11. #101
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    Dec 2009
    Victoria
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    crafty, millyd, ferrals - when are you testing??

  12. #102
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    Mar 2010
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    was going to test Saturday morning as we are out for dinner sat night. But I am not going to drink anyway, so if I can hold out I wont test until I am late which would be monday. BUt AF always comes by 10am so if she not here by 12 I reckon I will test on Sunday....do you think I can manage all that...I dont think I am pg this time, but am so hopeful....so unsure ... going a bit crazy actually

    xxxx
    Love to you Thopes

  13. #103
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    Aug 2009
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    Milly D - thanks for asking after me. Not feeling like I have a lot to offer at the moment, so haven't even been lurking. I'll bounce back. Take care.

  14. #104
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    Mar 2010
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    Oh Sweet Dory, my loving energy goes to you my sweet xxxxxxx biggest hugs xxxxxxxxxx

  15. #105
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    Jan 2010
    Ohio
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    Ferrals... Best luck to you sweetie.. I pray the temp keeps rising for ya
    hahah yes we are kinda alike
    My DF is kinda like us to he likes to clean ..
    I think he has OCD cause he will start worrying if we are down to one roll of toliet paper
    HAHA i one day bought a Big package of toliet paper and hide it he was freaking cause it was sunday with no paper.. he does that with are air freshner if its low he worries..LOL
    Its funny to watch. Hugs!

    Saffy yeah i use to be like that with my first hubby.. he hated it went i was alway scleaning around and make him move so i could swept.. either move or help..lol Hugs!

    Iona Macca Yay!! lets pray very hard that next month is our and we move over together!!
    Bets of luck sweetie!! Hugs!

    Kitfarie thanks sweetie that means alot to me knowing you dont really know me
    Hope things work out for you to with the "Oing" hugs!

    T-hopes its ok sweetie maybe i needed this month NOT to be mine with everything going on.. thanks and BIG hugs to you!
    Im praying for you girl!!!!

    Dory thanks BIG HUGS!!

    Millyd.. aww sweetei hang in there your going to get your day BIGHUG!!!

    Bets of luck..


    AFM...heading to bed (10:15pm)and going to court in the morning.. thanks for all the best wishes ...

  16. #106
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    TTCALC - good luck at court in the morn - I keep forgetting ur in Ohio!!!

  17. #107
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    Hi lovelies,

    I've been lurking a bit waiting to see all your BFPs.

    Tested today 12dpo and BFN. I've had odd syptoms here and there but not really feeling pg. Boobs are bigger but not sore and no real other signs now. I'll test again tomorrow and sat but not really holding my breath.

    So glad to see that so many of you might be in the running Really hoping to see some BFPs soon.

  18. #108
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    Mar 2010
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    I just got back form chinese herbaliist, he said my pulse was very promising he didnt want to get my hopes up but had to admit it was definitely stronger, different and slippery, which is typical of pregnancy.....
    Oh dear I am so anxiously excited about it...I will not test, I will not Test!!!
    Hope youre all having great days and brng on the BFP's!!!

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