I am hearing you murraycod. Thats one of the reasons I left midwifery on a permanent basis as I was sick of getting abused by undesirable parents whom shouldn't of been having children and most were taken of them by DOCS and it wasn't number 1 or 2. Half of them were up to number 8-10 even 12. Plus the baby was withdrawing etc but apparently it was all our fault. I really don't miss that part of it.
BFN for me this morning. Just waiting for AF to arrive. Just wish it would hurry up so I can get on with it and so its not here for Christmas.