Soooo good to see us all getting back to happy was pretty tough there for a while.
Since I'm gay I can't join in the conversation about boys sitting around the house with their bits out thankfully but it does make me laugh.
Thank you everyone for all the hugs and thoughts. I am doing heaps better today. I have booked an appointment with the Psychologist attached to my fertility clinic, I'm seeing her on thursday. Got my bt results back too and they are all normal (which is good but does not give me any answers to all my losses).
You are all so awesome and I'm so blessed to have your loving support.
This has been very amusing ladies. I've been doing IVF for so long, I forgot sex was all about TTC!!
Ferrals, I'm so glad to read your post 'cause when I was pregnant that man just wasn't safe. Reading the newspaper? Having a shave? Trying to cook dinner? Waking up in the morning? Going for a coffee? Answering the phone? I couldn't keep my hands off him! It drove me nuts esp. when I read you're not supposed to have an orgasm in the LTTTC forum. I mean, WTF? that's never written on the sheet they give you after an embryo transfer at my clinic! I was v. worried about that one 'cause it was full on pg porn at our place. I said to DH it was no wonder his mum had 11 kids! I want me some more of that please!
Well its very naughty in here ATM makes a change to see some giggles and have some scenes going through my head ! With us having such a busy household having rogers pop out and playing with your bits has to be a NO NO in this house ! can you imagine the questions we may get asked, oh no lets not even go there !
Murraycod thanks for you coments as usual makes lots of sense and you have had long cycles since your mc so I guess its just part and parcel of this damn TTC process, Just had to change my ticker again for the 3rd time ! can't make it any longer so lets hope AF turns up real soon ! Hope your week goes quickly and your little H defrosts nicely and settles in for the long 9mnths ahead !
Ferrals your DH is in for a treat he should have a permanant smile on his face ! he must think he got all his lotto tickets paid out in one day ! Good luck this cycle I just know you can do it,
Alice thanks for thinking of me wish I could stay in for 3 whole days instead of the school run and shopping and so on feel like a damn yo yo sometimes,
hope all you ladies in the TWW are keeping busy lets us know when you test ! and everyone in the Bdancing days good luck to you all,
AFM well day 35 still same nothing changes wonder how much longer this will go on for ! I know some ladies on here have upto 40 days in a cycle but for me this is a first time ever so I guess I am on the change in a way change of cycle length
Grrr - AF just arrived so put an end to my test-fest before it even started. I'm confused though cause my LF was only 10 days (normally its 13/14 days). Has anyone ever heard of the cycle following MC mucking up the LF length???
sarahrach all of my cycles have been mixed up since I mc back in sept last year, it took me nearly 8 wks to even get AF so its just one of those things we have to let our bodies sort out, I used to be a 28 day girl as regular as clockwork NOT ANY MORE now its a wait and see !
Look on the bright side you are on a new cycle and only 12 more days till you are fertile !
My DH has been known to do the "windmill" or the "helicopter" with his Old fella - ie: standing in the bedroom and waggling it around like a windmill then saying "you wanna bit" ? How romantic - makes me laugh though. He must think it will turn me on...
Glad he only does these things when the kids arent in eyesight....he's been pretty close to being sprung though.
Sarahrach - sorry AF trned up xo
Sunbeam - glad you are doing a little better xo
Hi Everyone ! xoxo
helloo all,
how are you? i am trying to post in our forum its just not uploading and going to message "THIS PAGE CAN NOT BE DISPLAYED" ....
thanks MurrayCod, Ferrals, Craftymummy, T-hopes, Dory for asking about me and remembering me. i m well fine and waiting for either AF or some good BFP .
I went to gynecologist today, had a big long one hr session, Craftymummy & Sarah- she said something about Luteal Phase, that onl first half of your cycle (till ovulation varies) but the second half is usually fixed 12 -14 days, so if you ovulate late, expect your periods in next 14 days and not like your cycles are 28 days and you ovulated on day 20, then your period will come after 14 days which is usually fixed for everyone, unless on medications or anemic, then we test for it.
Murraycod - its March, hun whats happening. i am sending you heaps of sticky vibes and babydust.xxoxox
ferrals - hows detoxification and herbal treatment going on? drnking yukky healthy juices...why all the healthy eatables are yukky and tasteless.
Dory - thanks for your kind words and motivation. hows your health? take care xxx
Matthew's mum - hows life and health?
Anita - Ovulating.... hope you are saving the energy for the deed..haha and all the best lovey.
sunbeam - good to hear from you. how are you feeling?
sarah - sorry af showed up... i saw your bbt chart and compared mine...thanks for posting here...are you subscribed to fertilty friend???
kit - sorry for the loss
snuggly - funny, cheeky stuff is back
and to everyone else - hello ladies, hope you are doing fine
i will pop up again and post in detail. i dont know whether this will get pasted in the forum. my internet is ****ing me...
AFM - Dr said your bdy seems normal and stop stressing about trying to conceive, just go with the flow, you are healthy and everything is all right, sometimes it takes time. but your cycles hv sure changed after D&C, she said we'll wait for one year for normal conception from D&C date and if nothing happens, thn will perform some test on you first and then Hubby. and she did my papsmears test
take care all
well well well arent we the naughty little post'ers!! So funny, had me in stitches! I too have one of those Dear Husbands that grabs whatever he can when i walk past!! After 10yrs together he still spies on me when im in the shower and gets 'roger' when i get changed! lol ! He loves nothing more than to flash and gross me out waking around doing naked lunges! hehhe! have to admit though, it sure makes me giggle!
So funny a few weeks ago I walked in the lounge room to find him naked on the couch... (you know that part in the movie Titanic when Rose is lying naked on the couch and she say's to Jack "I want you to draw me like one of your French girls?") hehehhe well thats the pose DH was in and exactly what he said to me! I was in hysterics! He cracks me up!!! still makes me chuckle every time i think about it!!!!
Well its so nice to see some laughing and sillyness in here! You all made my night giggling about your funny stories!!
AFM - I went to the docs this morning for a papsmear... hmmmm didnt exactly go to plan!! She couldnt get the thingy-me-bob in!! she said it was all to tight in there... oh deary - poor DH, we are gunna struggle to BDance tomorrow if i couldnt manage the prong!! After all the lovin we have had over the last few months I thought it would barely touch the sides
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.......ok, just threw up in my mouth some more!!
OMG my tummy literally is in a stitch ATM!!!! Oh so funny...deep breath in...hold.....sigh, I'm darn exhausted now!!!!!!
Ferrals, LMAO at your comment! Who's fault for starting this all off anyway...hhmmmmm, Snuggly or Ferrals.........was well needed I say XX
Alice, I tried the mirror thing, as I looked in, DH was in the background picking out a wedgie, so I couldn't take myself at all seriouse, I just looked at myself with a pitty smile at what I married.......gotte love'm hey?!
THopes eeew about the non-papsmear that wouldve hurt a bit, for me, whenever I have to have one of those horrible speculums inserted, it is the most horrible part of everything, and both my Gyno and FS use the metal ones...double awfull.
Ric am glad to hear that your Doc thinks things are fine for the go ahead, I am sure you won't have to worry in 12mnths time, you will be UTD well before then XX
Jahzara, our boys are truly naughty XXX I married a flasher too
Crafty, hope you had a good day today XXX (huggs) Oh the ticker thing?? I hate that, I have to change mine each month to make it longer. Lillypie tickers go to whatever no of days you want, like up to 80 I think, not that you will be needing that long!!XX
Sarahrach, think all of our cycles have mucked up at one time or another, I know it's frustrating. I wouldn't even know what my body would do if I had more than one natural cycle in a row....probablly go into a hybernation or something!!
Sunbeam, all you can do is sit back and laugh at us, and thank your lucky stars!!!XXXXX
Wishing you all the best for Thursday honey, you trully deserve to wake up happy and feel strong XXX Hope you are taking care, how's the health kick going?XX
Kit, darling, sorry about your Aunty, my regards to you and your family XXXX
My first clomid taken thismorning, 4 more to go! Then blood test day 12 of my cycle to check levels, hopefully they show sign of ovulation, so we can get Harvey woken up and thawed out!!
QUESTION.... if the worst does happen, and Harvey does not survive thaw, could I still have a chance falling PG being that I have been taking clomid this month?? I know you have to BD on the right days and stuff, oh I dunno, just getting myself ready for this thaw, making sure I have some hope to fall back on I guess.
Oh, and just to let you all know, as I had let you know yesterday, my DH seems to sexually hassass me when I have AF, well, today, no AF and he was too tired....
He wen't off to bed a while ago now!
Sunbeam - you can't say girls don't do cheeky stuff though! I used to live in an all-girl sharehouse, and it was pretty funny! One really hot day, my housemate brought me an iced tea really early, only to find me naked and "starfished" on the bed. We also referred to pants in "degrees of noonga" according to how much camel toe was visible
murraycod - lol on the wedgie. Last night DH was on the bed, I took off my skirt, and he went "ohhh, you're so cute! you've got a wedgie!" Somehow I managed to not let that kill any semblance of mood and we still DTD'd in a last ditch effort. I think i O'd on Sunday.
Kit - I'm sorry to hear about your Aunty. I loooove the smell of roses. For special occasions (this is weird) I rub rose petals on my eyebrows. It smells awesome, in a way that perfum never can.
T-hopes - umm, yay? on the papsmear? In the sharehouse I mentioned befor, we all went together (yeah, odd) then home to bottle of champagne. Highly recommended.
Alice - OMG pg porn! We were exactly the same! I heard that the increased blood flow to the pelvis makes it easier to orgasm. Can't wait for that again! How are you going after the Cardboard Jungle Meltdown? Hope you don't mind that I call it that. I always found it easier to reconcile myself after a big cry if I named the incident. I dunno why.
AFM - well, as can be seen, I am a total nut job. Temp didn't quite rise enough this morning, so thinking maybe I didn't O. Also thinking maybe next cycle (crackle...fizzz...here comes the SVN news) will temp vaginally because I'm getting a lot of fluctuation with the weather. I'm not so hell-bent on ttc now that i'm in this new job. very relaxd about it all.
I just made cupcakes for my dog's 14th birthday party. I am very proud of how they worked out. Of course it's more for 2 year old DD than the dog who is now both blind and deaf. Here's a photo of them. http://server2.uploadit.org/files/Ge...u-IMG_7379.jpg
AFM - I guess I have just entered the TWW. Not sure if I even ovulated. Didn't have the usual pains that indicate ovulation but who knows. Only time will tell.
Hi ladies - thanks for your words. Its soooo frustrating, agh!
Crafty - ugh, 8 weeks to get AF would have been hard - 6 weeks has been bad enough. Just hoping that now things will start to normalise a little bit. But its probably more like 18 days rather than 12 days for my fertile window now to be fertile as normally I O at around day 20.
Ric - yes, that's the point the LF usually is fixed (mine at 13 - 14) so 9 days is a bit WTF!!! Hopefully your gyne gave you some answers in your session though. Yes, I subscribed to FF and really enjoy charting - makes me feel in control of at least something!!!
Murray - good luck with the clomid - I hope it helps with your cycle. I heard it can make you a bit loopy though, so let us know how you go.
Ah snuggly you're a crack up. I like it - I am now going to adopt your naming protocol for all future incidents. I am feeling a little flat tbh, but putting it down to exhaustion at finishing job and all the emotional roller-coaster stuff going on. What's the new job like?
SarahRach - v. frustrating for you. This is my first cycle since mc so will be interesting to see what happens. Sounds like our bodies go a bit haywire for a while afterwards. Hope this one is more 'normal' for you.
SammyP !!you are a cake queen!! they look amazing - bet your DD looved them - bet the dog did too (go on, you did give him some, didn't you?)
MurryCod - go the flashers! It's been a while since we've had any snowbabies to thaw so I can't remember a lot of the details, but I would think if they are looking for signs of ovulation when they thaw, that means you've already o'd right? in which case it might be too late by then? I don't know, I guess you could get one in for good measure before the thaw but then you are really rolling the dice 'cause if Harvey thaws AND you get pg on your own you might end up with twins and they are much higher risk pg than just one so don't know if it's a good idea or not.
Thopes - I felt squirmy for you just reading about your...pap smear. I don't blame her for closing up shop - not nice. Somehow don't think it'll be the same for your love-fest though.
Ric - that's great that all is good and I think Crafty is right, you'll be UTD before 12 months is out. Good luck lovely.
Jahazra - good to have laugh isn't it?
Crafty - a long cycle like that would bug the hell out of me too, especially when you've had such predictable cycles before. Let's hope it's just your body get back into it's groove again after the mc. Sounds like some down time would be a welcome relief for you! I don't suppose you get many opportunities for that with all your little ones but any chance you can have a friend look after some for a night and you and your DH have a night off to do something nice? Or a weekend? I spend way too much time here at home, brooding (in all senses!). I need to get out more.
Dory - how are you going? Are those fur persons still keeping you good company? x
Kit - I'm sorry about your aunty - even when those things are expected they are still hard and sad. I am growing two beautiful roses out the back, thought of you when I looked out the window this morning.
Ah Sunbeam, I'm with Crafty, think you must be counting your lucky stars! Hope you are feeling OK today and the counseling tomorrow helps.
How is everyone else going? It's been looney tunes in here for the past few days but god I needed the laugh I can tell you!
SammyP they are gorgeous cupcakes. I love them. Maybe I can steel your idea and make some for my babies first birthday in June. She is a cavalier and just such a joy in our lives (my DDs and mine)
I've been staying away as I am so depressed and negative at the moment. EDD for my ectopic is coming up and I was desperate to be pregnant again and thats not going to happen and the Gyno made all these suggestions only to fall through on them all so I feel I have no plan of action and clearly trying naturally isn't working. Arrrr
Mildez - I understand the staying away - thats why i have only just come back - up til then i had been pretty depressed.
Hope things improve and you find a plan of action...
xoxo
xoxo
and she did my papsmears test
hehhe! have to admit though, it sure makes me giggle! 
she said it was all to tight in there... oh deary - poor DH, we are gunna struggle to BDance tomorrow if i couldnt manage the prong!! After all the lovin we have had over the last few months I thought it would barely touch the sides 
(go on, you did give him some, didn't you?)
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