Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss -February 2009

[nicjay]

Jen! Hoping you have a lovely day and get spoilt rotten! that you are wrong and the stupid witch stays away for you too. again for yesterday.

Hannah - So sorry to hear that AF arrived and also that your holiday didn't go well, can you organise another one sometime soon? At least your dragon is OK though!

Rhi - hope that AF arrives for you soon so you can start TTC again, the being in limbo is just awful, I know exactly what you mean.

babymiracles - Will post back to you in the other thread

to all you other lovely ladies, hope you are doing OK today

[charm]

Jen - great big massive for you today ... thinking of you hun. Will be back tomorrow for special bday wishes too...

Charm - just wanted to say that my two m/c last year (9 wks and 11 wks) were due to 45x otherwise known as monosomy x. It is completely random, not age-related and non-inherited and is very very unlikely to occur again in future pgcies. My 2nd m/c was an extremely rare exception to this rule. Anyway, am now expecting a little girl and all seems to be going well, something we'd thought couldn't happen. Hope you're doing ok after getting the results - in my experience it was a relief to have a reason for losing the babies, but at the same time it seems to open up a whole other set of worries. Big hugs hun - feel free to pm me if ever you need...

wth - yay for great ultrasound!! Sending all of the zen vibes in the world to you for the next few weeks....


Big huge love and hugs to you all

xx

I tried to pm you but I think I need 50 posts first but a huge thanks to you I am glad I know why my little girl died and It has helped as much as it possiblibly can the bizare thing in this whole situation is I am only able to greive with my children at the moment I feel the rest of the family don't really want to hear me and my hubby hurts so I am being positive for him and looking forward to falling again fingers crossed I tried to google my results last night as the gyno didn't explain it completely. Hello to eveyone and huge hugs all round.

[jen805]

Thanks again for the early b-day wishes everyone! Still only the 5th here... but feeling all the early b-day love coming my way! Just got back from dinner with DF and his skydive instructor/friend. Left the boys at home! It felt nice to get out for a while without the boys... feel somewhat guilty for saying that, but I've been cooped up with DS for a week! I needed the break! Will be back tomorrow for persies, but just wanted to tell you all thanks again for the b-day wishes! xoxoxoxoxo

[jenushka]

Charm - - sorry hun - wasn't being too observant when I wrote that post!! until you get your number of posts up feel free to post anything here for me - I'm a regular lurker And we're all here for you if you need someone else to grieve with.... I would not have made it through either of my m/c without the wonderful ladies here


Jen - - wishing you a wonderful birthday special girl - hope you get spoiled rotten!!

[charm]

NP I just noticed on your ticker that your 25 weeks preg which is awesome and gives me hope and to see other ppl having sucesssful pregnancy's after miscarriage it's awesome for now one day at a time

[coco1411]

Hi Ladies, Ive just been lurking here now and again.

We're in the first cycle after our first m/c and just taking it one day at a time as I have nooooo idea when to count my cycle from. Ive counted it from the day before i had the scan to confirm the m/c & then took the tablets to make it..err...come out.

I know it is less than 50% chance of falling after the first month but no harm in trying right?

Hope you're all doing well

Eliza

[kazaraz]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEN

Hey girls, sorry I havent posted since my gynie visit. No excuse really, just slack. All went well, well on the way to having some answers. Basically she has done blood tests, checking my hormone level and seeing where I am in my cycle. If I am getting an af soon and not pregnant, she is going to give me something to hurry it up. She didnt seem concerned by the fact that its been over 9 weeks since I had an af, she said considering my cycles are about 35 days that this is ok. She has booked me in for a gynalogical ultrasound, apparently its more detailed than a normal pelvic ultrasound which is on the 14th March. I get my blood test results then as well, she said she will do it all together. Like I want to wait, but oh well. Also have an enlarged uterus, she doesnt know the cause but wants to know why. She mentioned "fybroids etc", so of course I had to look it up on the net. Haha. I am bad. But I hate when you get half the story. So anyway, it could be a number of things causing that, and I will have to wait and see what the outcome there is as well. So as I said we are closer, but still dont know. Still no af, still feel like I am pregnant but she said its probably just my body getting prepared for a period. Oh, the other thing she said after looking at my bloods around the time of the m/c, is that it sounds like I had a chemical pregnancy. But I said why did I lose so badly, clots etc, she said she isnt sure and when I explained that she said maybe I was further along. SHe said she really cant say one way or another? Not that it really matters now, but it would be nice to know what happened.

Coco - you have to be in it to win it so to speak ... good luck

[tutmae]

Jen: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! Here's to a fantastic day and a fantastic year ahead!!!! Big big big BIG

[fificlaire]

Happy Birthday



Happy Birthday Hun! Hope you have a fab day!

[mummy_of_3_boys]

Hi Everyone Old and New

I feel so slack I haven't been on since December. No wonder I am lost.

There are so many new names and everyone has new stories to tell.

Unfortunatly I have no news still trying!

Take care girls and hopefully I will catch up soon with what is going on




btw

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEN JEN!! Love you lots XOXOXOXOX

[~ Mylitta ~]

Happy Birthday fellow Fab'er!

May all your birthday wishes and dreams be fulfilled!

Miss you and much love to you always sweetness!

[jen805]

Big thanks and for jenushka, kazaraz & tutmae for the birthday wishes!



kazaraz--Best of luck with your u/s & BT's on the 14th! I hope you get some answers!



coco--I heard that a woman is supposedly very fertile after a m/c! So definitely no harm in trying!



fifi, MO3Boys, Krystie, mollycat, & plc--My Fri. girls Thanks so, so much for waiting up for me! It was only by chance that I opened my phone to check the time, and realized I was about to sleep thru chat again! Must've been all that chanting that woke me up! Luv you all! xoxoxoxoxo

[Tuesday's Child]

Rhi - I'm sorry you've been unwell. I hope the treatment with the naturopath helps. I'm praying AF doesn't show though.

Mel - Glad you enjoyed the Coldplay concert. I hope AF stays away.

charm - I'm glad you were able to find out the reason for the loss of your little girl.

WTH - Woohoo for a lovely HB! I'm praying the next few weeks are uneventful for you. Thanks for keeping us posted.

Theresa - Glad all is well with you also. Goodluck for the upcoming scan.

Abbey - Sorry AF is being hard on you . I hope she has eased by now. Don't apologise for ranting. Nothing is more important to you than what is going on in your life. This journey is not easy so thank god for the support of the women here.

fifi - Glad things are going well. Not long now.

jen - Glad DS is on the mend. I hope he's keeping his fluids up. I also hope you are able to get some sleep now. Still praying AF stays away. I hope you are having a lovely B'day.

Toccara - Goodluck with your appointment next week.

jackjack - I'm glad you had a great holiday (except for a day in hospital). Goodluck with all the tests. I hope you get some answers soon.

Em - I'm so sorry you had to have a 3rd D&C. I hope they got it all this time so that you can start over. I also hope the afterbirth pains stop once they get the clot once and for all.

plc - Thanks so much for taking the time to inspire us and remind us that it is possible. for you and April.

megsmum - You are always welcome here. I love seeing that ticker tick.

Krystie - Hi and for little Chyan.

mollycat - I've just noticed your ticker. Congratulations on losing 12 kilos already. Fantastic effort!

babymiracles - I think I said this yesterday, but I'm so glad things are going so well. Goodluck with your next scan in a couple of weeks.

jenushka - I love watching your ticker go too. Glad things are well with you too.

Eliza - kazaraz is right. You have to be in it to win it

kazaraz - Goodluck with the BT results and the upcoming scan. Sounds like you are finally on the way to figuring out what is going on.

mo3b - Welcome back.

AFM - We finally got my car home yesterday and DH put in the new fuel pump, but it still isn't completely right. I think the stress of the last couple of days has finally caught up with me. I feel really tired and grumpy even though I actually slept for 10 hours last night. I'm not ready to go back to work next week and now I've used up all my leave. I feel like the last two weeks have been a complete waste of time. Sorry, just feeling *blah* today.

[Mel1979]

Jen - USA time! Hope you've had a great day and AF doesn't show!

HannahD - for AF showing and another for having to cut your holiday short. That's terrible luck about your car but I hope you and your DH made the most of the time you had away together.

MO3B - Welcome back, although I wish you were in the PAML thread!

kazaraz - Glad you are finally getting some answers. Although it doesn't bring your angel back at least knowing being informed it another step closer to a H&H pg next time

coco - Even if chances are slim there is still a chance so get your shoes on!

mollycat - Nice to hear from you. Well done on your weight loss!

Babymiracles - You are always welcome here and your ticker is a nice reminder that it can happen!

to everyone else.

AFM - Been lurking the last couple of days as I have been very sad and had a mini meltdown last night. I just cried and cried for my angel. Just very disheartened and frustrated at the whole situation. I tend to get like this leading up to AF (poor DH - I have been so moody!). I just always start second guessing every cramp or pg symptom I have and start to get my hopes up. Since the op I have pinned all my hopes on everything being fixed and I have a feeling I am going to be disappointed again this month

I have been so angry at everyone around me too (except you girls as you all understand). I just feel like the people I know don't even act like I was ever pg anymore and sometimes I wonder if I ever was? I only knew I was pg for a week but in that week we loved and wanted our baby so much. I know people have been through far worse though so I feel bad for complaining.

Anyway, that's why I have stayed away - as look at the negative post I just wrote. Sorry everyone, try so hard to be positive and uplifting but sometimes I just don't have it in me.

[mummy_of_3_boys]

Hello all beutiful BB girls

Thank you to HannahD and Mel for welcoming me back. It's so easy to get behind with whats going on in everyones lives but I will do my best in the next week to catch up.

Jen Jen- I hope your birthday finished on a good note and that that horrible AF didn't show up to spoil your day.

Fifi- Here's hoping all is well in Fifiland and that you were able to have a good night out. XXX

Plc- Thanx for the laughs sweetie, you really are a gorgeous woman.

Molly- Although I was dissapointed you ran out of matchsticks, I hope you did get a good night sleep. Lets hope tomorrow is better than last Sunday was for you.

Krystie- It was so good having a chat after so long. Those pics are just so amazing. Big tummy rubs.

HannahD- I am sorry to hear you are having car troubles I hope this coming week is better for you and that you can de-stress.

Mel- Never feel bad for complaining or being down. It doesn't matter how far along you are when you lose an angel, losing an angel is losing an angel and those days, weeks and months before your angel flies are full of hope, dreams and love no matter how short a time that is. Nobody understands until they have been there, we all have had people in our lives being unsupportive and wishing we would 'get over it'. But being a mother starts the day you fall pregnant and lasts for eternity. When someone makes you feel bad, come on BB where we understand.

BIG HUGS AND KISSES TO EVERYONE AND LOTSA

AFM Finally stopped being sick last night about 4 am and was able to go to bed. I haven't been sick yet today which I am kinda sad about( I know that sounds odd).But I was hoping it was MS and not just a bug. Grrrrr! I am having every pg sign there is but I am probably just talking myself into it. Only time will tell I guess, in the meantime I will try and think of other things- no matter how hard that is. I have to restrain from poas because AF showing her ugly head seems to be easier for me to deal with that a

Take Care

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

[mrzbaby]

Hi all,

Well today I brevaed the shop and bought my charm for my Pandora Bracelet.
Mixed feelings about it but at the same time it signifys and very special part of my life.

Since the 3rd D&C last week I am very up and down about the TTC part. I know now is not the right time for me to make that decision.

Any how here go the perssies:

Jen :Happy Birthday To You !!!!!!!!!birthday2: wishing you lots of and no AF vibes hun.

mollycat - I have joined the Tony Ferguson diet this morning will have to go get one of those tickers. I am wanting to drop a few kilos then back to my dietician.

charm - I am glad you have the reulsts of why you lost your little girl. I would love to have some answers to help provide me with a little more closure and healing. Unfortunately I have asked and they tell me they are unsure .

babymiracles - Yay for the scan. love seeing that ticker going along... Not long to go for the wedding.. hows the plans going?

fifi - Hows the bub going? Looking at the ticker not long to go now.... ahh the memories, swollen feet, no sleep, fall asleep bub wakes up and kicks non stop... I am SOOOOOOOO looking forward to doing that again ... Bring it on!

Krystie - for Chyan is it pronounced Cyan / Sian ?

kazaraz - I am going to join your have to be in it to win it club ... such good advice.. thanks. I am so glad you are on your way to finding out some answers to the questions. It can be so hard not knowing.

Eliza - You go girl ! bd: You get the idea! :

Mel - How was Cold play OMG I would have loved to have seen them live. I 'won tickets to Rock wiz salutes the bowl and had airfares all lined up for DH birthday surprise on the 13th of Feb but unfortunately DH and I were in hosp

Mum of 3 boys - Hi we haven't met but i am glad to be sharing your journey with you

[jen805]

Happy Saturday/Sunday! Thanks again to everyone for the b-day wishes! Don't have time for persies right now, as DF is getting ready to skydive, but just wanted to officially welcome back MO3B-- I'm so, so happy to see you back here--now I don't have to wait until Friday to catch up with you! Sending mega vibes your way and tons of (notice the pink? ) Luv ya girl! xoxoxoxoxo

[jackjack]

Just aquick one for me girls just wanted to wish jen a belated but very very happy birthday, hope you had a great day xx
Be back later for persies