thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - January 2009

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Toccara--You probably won't believe this, but I've been thinking about you so much lately! It's so crazy that you posted, because the last 2 times I posted I expected to be back fairly shortly to finish persies... and I never made it. And you were at the top of the list for the next post... you've totally been on my mind. I have a strange intuition thing going on... so I had a feeling since you were on my mind so much that things were rough for you atm...but didn't really understand until I read your post. I'm so sorry, hon... I know how you feel... went thru it in Sept., and it was tough. You have to keep your chin up, sweetie, and keep that faith burning strong in your heart and soul. I've got plenty enough for the both of us--don't you worry! Take care of yourself, love!

  2. #2
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    Aug 2008
    Canungra, Gold Coast
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    Confirmed BFP

    Thank you girls for all your excitement! I am sitting here with tears in my eyes and thank my lucky stars that I found such wonderful friends on this forum.

    Jen - you made me laugh the loudest!!!!

    I went to my GP this avo and she did another HPT which showed another BFP. I will have the blood test results tomorrow!!! At this stage it is estimated I am about 4 weeks pg. Estimated due date at this stage is 18 Sept!!!

    I know this is going to be an amazing year for all of us!! You girls have to follow my lead so we can chat through each others pregnancies.

    I am so excited but also a little nervous. Next step is to make an appointment with the OB.

    Megsmum - sending you lots of love and

    TY - Hope all went well at your appointment today!

    Thanks again for all your support. I am still in a bit of shock but I am sure it will sink i soon

  3. #3
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    Jan 2009
    Pennsylvania
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    Easha & Zachary's Mum-Congrats and lots of


    Rach-I am so sorry for you loss. I looked at Lilli's page and she was a beautiful precious child.


    T.Y.-Good luck at the GY/OB


    Babymiracles-


    MegsMum-I hope the sickness goes away soon.


    Toccara- I'm praying for you


    Mel-Good luck at the FS


    Chappas-

    Update still no signs of AF. I'm going to test on the 16th if its not here.

  4. #4
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    May 2008
    U.S.A
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    Shortcake,chappas,Hannah thanks so much for your kinda words ...

    Mel~ thanks so much for your kind words no I have not had any test done yet I'm have them done in April or may I found a hospital here that works only with high risk pregnancy ... that if I still have a job in may ...

    Jen~ You really just don't know how much your post's and determination keep me going I'm holding back tears right now because your post meant so much to me I have really been stressing and worrying a lot and on top of having to look forward to my Angel's EDD's I also am worried I will be getting laid off soon with the auto industry the way it is Michigan is really going down hill people don't have money to come to the casino and play so my job has slowly been laying off last week they got to my department so over the next few weeks I will be on pins and needle waiting to see whats going to happen if I get laid off I might have to wait even longer to ttc again I did find a hospital here that only works with high risk pregnant women! I think about you a lot too I come to the forum and lurk to look for a BFP from you !!! I pray we both get 2009 BFP and 2009/2010 babies !!!

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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    Mel - I'm feeling a little better today, thanks for asking. I think it helped that DH was home last night so I wasn't alone with my thoughts. My appointment isn't until the 21st.Goodluck with your FS appointment today. Even though you don't expect any answers, its a good opportunity to get more info about the lap if you're still unsure about it. Let us know how it goes.

    chappas - Happy Birthday to your little girl (although not so little now, huh?). I hope she enjoyed the party. Still have for you.

    shortcake - Lots of vibes coming your way!

    tocarra - I'm so sorry things are tough for you right now. You're in my thoughts.

    AFM - Last night I decided to start charting my CM, just as a start to charting, then I'll see how I go. I looked at my dates for the last 4 cycles since m/c. The first 2 were 28 days in length but then the next two were 31 and 32 days. Just wish I new what was going on.

    ETA - Actually I don't want to know what is going on. I want a BFP this cycle so I won't know how long its going to be.

  6. #6
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    Dec 2007
    Belmont, Newcastle
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    HannahD- I hope you get a BFP this cycle to!!! Gotta hate when AF won't make her mind on how many days she wants to take

    Shortcake - that you get your BFP soon. How late are you now???

    Chappas - oh sending BFP vibes your way. Hopefully it was just to early for it show.

    Toccara - Sorry your having a bad time ATM. I hope all works aout well with your job, and you get a BFP soon.

    Ok so AF is almost finshed, can't wait till she does so we can start DTD

  7. #7
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    Aug 2008
    Canungra, Gold Coast
    144

    Hi girls

    Sorry - I couldn't get on last night. I tried for 5 hours and it kept saying the site was unavailable!

    Mel - I hope your FS appointment goes well and you get at least some answers!!!

    Chappas - I waited until 7 days late so I am that you get your BFP!!!!! Hope you enjoyed your daughters birthday party

    Shortcake - for a BFP!!!! I will be waiting in anticipation for the good news!!!!

    Toccara - Thinking of you and sending you

    Hannah - Some hope for you..... I was irregular after having Zachary. Anywhere between 28 and 32 days! ANd now I am pg so I know you will be too

    AFM - I had confirmation from my doctor today that the blood test was positive too! I will be calling the OB tomorrow to make an appointment and also my diabetic specialist. Time to get the ball rolling and make sure that everything goes right this time!

    Can you believe that my EDD is the 18 Sept - however, my OB told me they would probably only let me go to 36 weeks. When I looked o the calendar it makes my EDD 21 Aug - Zachary's original due date was 22 August!!!! How bizarre is that!!!!

    Love you all xxxxxx

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    Oct 2008
    Tasmania
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    Hannah - Glad you are feeling better and DH was home to keep you company Being alone with your thoughts can make it worse. It's a pity you have to wait so long to see a GP but I hope you are feeling better soon. Don't worry my cycles have been different lengths every month since the m/c - anywhere between 28 and 35 days! I know we will all get our BFP's soon.

    Theresa - Ooh, how exciting! So, so happy for you!

    Babymiracles - How are you feeling? Still for you!

    Shortcake - Still sending those vibes!

    chappas - . Happy birthday to your little girl!

    Hi to Jen, plc (how's that gorgeous baby girl of yours?), AJC (how's your gorgeous baby boy?), fifi, tam, toccara, rach, mannie, megsmum, smi, jackjack, tutmae, kezzabird, krystielove and anyone else I have missed. I think I am getting better at remembering everyone?

    AFM - Well, went to FS today. My prog level was 32 (month before was 37) so I o again. My normal FS is away as he had an operation on his shoulder so I saw the locum. He was very old school (red bowtie and all!) but was still very good. He actually recommended the lap, not so much for endo but to flush my tubes (which my other FS was going to do anyway). He said because I have been pg before and didn't have to have D&C (where they also flush your tubes) then it is possible for some mucus to be blocking my tubes which could be the problem. He actually said it is quite common. Once that has been done he recommends TTC for another 4 months before considering IVF. I hope it is just something simple like that. I didn't realise that your tubes could get blocked from a previous pg. I thought once you m/c that was it . It may not be that but it is worth a try! I found out we have a family history of endo but I don't think I have that. Booked in for the op on the 16th of Feb (after AF) so I guess we will know soon enough! Hopefully my normal FS can do it (depends on his shoulder) but if not I am ok with the locum. He seemed very good. I am supposed to o about the 20th of Feb so hopefully will be well enough to BD by then! I think I'll manage

    Needless to say I am feeling very positive and inspired again and it feels good! Don't want to pin all my hopes on it but it is better than feeling like I am doing nothing!

  9. #9
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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    rach - Woohoo! AF is almost gone. Lets hope she doesn't visit for at least another 9 months. Here's a dose of early for the upcoming BD marathon.

    Theresa - I don't think that sort of timing could have been planned if you'd tried. Its a nice connection between Zachary and his little brother and sister.

    Mel - So it was worth going to see the FS today, after all. Glad you're feeling inspired again.

    AFM - DH seems happy about my longer cycles since it means an extra day or two of BD just in case I'm ovulating later. Well, he'll be happy until I start stressing when AF doesn't show on time.

    to everyone else (I know, I know, I'm getting awfully lazy with names lately) It is very quiet around here today though. I hope everyone is well.

  10. #10
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    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Hi ladies
    Thankyou for all of your birthday wishes for our DD. She had a lovely time at her party.

    Shortcake - you get bfp on the 16th

    Hannah - Glad you are feeling a little better, really hope you get your bfp this cycle

    Rach2281 - Glad af is almost over

    Zacharysmom - Will test again if no af by sunday but my cycles have been all over the place since m/c so expecting af to show.

    Mel - Glad that you are feeling more positive. Hope your op goes well

    AFM - No af yet, no symptoms. Have made appointment with doctor as we have been ttc for 12 months now