Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July/August 2009

[ferrals5]

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Abbi's memory candle
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Abbi's ashe's
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Abbi's cardi and ultrasound's

[maddison]

What a beautiful way to remember such a beautiful baby girl. I hope you have been surrounded by loved ones on such a special day.

[Jahzara]

Awwwwww.....Ferrals, thats is just beautiful !

xxoo

[Anila]

Ferrals, that is so beautiful, im sure she is looking down from heaven, and sending you so many kisses, i have a tear in my eye just thinking about you and your family right now.

[eliselouise]

Ferals that is such a beautiful way to remember a special little girl. Hope your day has been ok and youve been surrounded by lots of loving family Sammy that is great about the blood tests. WOO HOO its all so official now yay. Hello to everyone else and good luck all in the tww.

[NattyT]

Hi all, just stopping in quickly, will be back soon to write a longer personals post soon....

Just wanted to pass my love onto Ferrals, my thoughts and prayers are with you today hun I hope you're both surrounded by HEAPS love today, the photos that you posted are beautiful.

Take care of each other

Much love

Natt XO

[coco1411]

Ferrals those pictures are gorgeous! Very sweet of you My sister bought me a bear just like that one when I was miscarrying and Ive hugged it so much that the fur is all bunched together hahaha you did well sweety xx

[Jahzara]

chickybabe, im ok, feeling heaps better, i decided that i cant change the outcome of what happened, and i have to keep going, i know xmas eve will be hard for me, although i will be surrounded by family from sa and my family, i probably will be the only one remembering that my lil bundle was due on that day.
I dont know if i ever mentioned that our bundle was nicknamed Omlette, hubby and i made a joke about mixing eggs and sperm and stiring it all about, and making our own personal omlette, and the name just stuck, even the kids will say i thought about omlette today when i looked at the stars, i told them that when a star twinkles while they are looking at it, then its probably omlette saying hello. Any way i bought my eldest and my hubby rings from squidipas store, i got Grace a liltle heart ring, and i got my hubby a rememberence foot print ring. Its for them to remeber omlette as i have had my way to remember tattooed on my back.

Anila - so glad to hear that you are feeling better. What a lovely way to honour your baby - that is very sweet !
I think the name 'Omelette' that you had for your baby is sooo cute !

Good luck with everything - i hope you get a BFP very very soon.

xxoo

[ferrals5]

Hi girl's
Today i feel good it's like i was waiting for my due date to come before i could finally except what has happened and move on like as the week's and day's got closer i was alway's counting and thinking about it now there is nothing to count down to anymore it is done so now i can put 100% into getting pregnant and look forward to the future i would like to say if it were not for all the support i get here from you fabulous women it would have been so much harder to deal with thankyou and i hope i can give as much as i have recieved here

[kyrawolfe]

hey there

Been so busy so just a quick hi for now

Hope everyone is doing well Ferrals that is so beautiful.. the ultrasound pictures give it such a personal touch

<3

[kyrawolfe]

One week to go!! Wish me luck!

[Sunbeam]

Hi Everyone

Ferrals-those are beautiful things that you have set out in memory of Abbi. I'm so glad you have been able to have such a special day for her and are now feeling better about looking forward.

Anila- I love the idea that twinkling stars are our babies saying hi. My baby would have been due on the 10th Dec and my friend is due the same week so I know Christmas will be hard even if I am pg by then.

Maddison-so sorry AF turned up I had everything crossed for you. Your poem was beautiful and brought me to tears.

Coco-good luck with your egg hunt lets hope the op has made a fresh start for you. Great sign on the EWCM.

Sammy-So glad the BT confirmed your pg that's fantastic. The low number is not a problem only how it is rising, should double every 2-3 days. Did your Dr. not suggest another one till your ob appt.? My Dr. always does 3 in the first 10 days or so to check how my levels are rising and also tests my progesterone to make sure it is high enough. Figure you are with in your rights to ask for more if you want.

afm-Kyra I'm with you 1 week to go. I'd love to say I'm feeling positive but I've spent too many months obsessing about being pg and every little sign only to find I'm not so I'm not going to even try and guess one way or the other until a test tells me so. Will be doubly bummed if I'm not as I won't get to try again till Oct as donor daddy will be away next month.

[kyrawolfe]

sunbeam -=- I know how you feel.. Itd be nice if there was a good sign to feel positive on but atm Im just feeling normal.. except sore melons LOL! which i would get either way so.. eh.

fingers crossed for everyone in there 2ww

[maddison]

Hi Ladies,

Sunbeam - I didnt write the poem. I probably should of said that yesterday. I got it off a poem website and tried to read it a few times yesterday but would just start crying. Not a good look when customers come into the shop! It was really beautiful and made me think of Ferrals.

Coco - Have you have another positive OPK today?? When is dh back for some more baby making?

Ferrals - Im really happy that you have found some peace with the passing of Abbis due date.

AFM - Well i thought AF was starting. I have had extremely light spotting for 2 full days now and its sooo annoying. Im so over a/f. Shes such a b%t#h.

[Sunbeam]

Maddison-does that meant it might not be a/f after all? Do you usually get spotting first?

OMG I can't believe this I am sitting here waiting for yet another client who I confirmed only 7 1/2 hours ago and is looking like a no show!!!

[India's Mum]

Maddison - What does that mean? Will you test again?

Sunbeam - what line of work are you in? My sister owns a beauty salon and goes ballistic when she has a day of no-shows!

Good luck to those testing in a few days. It would be wonderful to have a few more BFP's.

[coco1411]

Madison thanks hon, I didnt have a positive today. I have a sneaking suspicion I am 1dpo now

[juleswa]

Hi Girls,

I'm back again with another question - first but, can I say how wonderful you all are and the support you offer eachother is a truly beautiful thing. You all seem like shining rays of light.

What has your experience been of temping post d&c? I was meant to Ovulate the week before the d&c, but didn't (i think cause I had my appendix out, my body was too busy to release an eggy), and according to my temps I O'd the same day as the d&c cause they shot right up the next day and have stayed up ever since (has been a little over a week).

I was wondering if this is a normal temp reaction after a D&C or did I really O on that day?

What has your temp done post d&c.

Thanks heaps, and a big hug to you all. I am often in tears reading the posts in here cause I can really relate but don't always have the confidence to post. But know that I often think of you girls and wich you all bfp really soon.