(I tried to edit my post but ended up deleting it .....)
here's what I wrote:
Thanks Kyrawolfe. Your ex-friend sounds like a right-royal-*$%#@!!!!!! That's pretty severe to warrant a kidney removal, that poor baby. It's tragic, and what all of us would do, and how much we all would love her if we had that little girl. WTF???
and what I wanted to add ...
and good luck with your testing - but i try not to test until af is due or at least late - because of chem pg (would rather not know) and then the times i was pg, did not get BFP until af due anyway. besides, it saves money not buying a dozen tests each month!! fingers crossed for you!!
Hi Sequoia - Im very sorry for your losses. I was very surprised to read that you have to delete your messages. Hope awful to have people you know you just reading them. I know its open to the public but you would hope people dont just read this stuff for the fun of it. I hope you find the same wonderful support here that you got last time and that your stay here is nice and short.
Evening all, hope everyone is having a good week. I FINALLY got my computer back today after 3 weeks and its so much easier to use it than my bloody phone
Have just been reading through posts and was gonna do persies as soon as i got computer back but now im just gonna have a big whing, Sorry all.
Yesterday i was in the TWW (with quite a few others on here - Good luck to you all ) Today when i got out of bed at 3.30pm (im on nightshift) i had a shower and went down the street and had quite bad cramping and a wet feeling down there, sorry for TMI. I thought to myself surely not AF is not due for at least another week, and surely enough when i got home she had arrived GRRR so angry
I have never actually counted how long my cycles have been and have always just assumed they have been 28 days or around about, but this one has only been 21 days so obviously i had miss calculated when i was due to ovulate and completely missed it
Does anyone else have a short cycle like this or have different cycles each time? I have no idea whats going on.
I suppose one good thing about a shorter cycle would be that i would ovulate earlier and the wait untill testing would come around quicker too so i suppose thats something to look forward to.
Anyway thanx for listening (or reading i should say) and id better go and organise some dinner before i have to go to work.
Ill be back on tomorow for persies hopefully, have a good night everyone
sorry to hear that AF came early elsielouise.
When my AF has come early it has been becasue of a chem preg.
if your cycle is routinely short, the problem with a short cycle can be that the luteal phase is too short (from ov to af). Do you know when you ovulate? Perhaps try an OPK next cycle?
good luck!!
I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks just over a week ago and would love to talk to women who are going through or have been through the same thing. Even though i was only 9 weeks we already had names picked out and had started buying lots of baby things.
As hard as this is to get through we are trying to be positive and my partner and I would love to start trying again as soon as we can but have been told to wait a month.
Naturally im terrified the same thing will happen again or that we wont be able to conceive again but I desperatly want a baby of my own, its so hard seeing friends who are pregnant so I'd love to chat to women who are going throught the same thing I am.
I'm confused about my cycle. I was thinking that I needed to do the deed around Friday but checking FF says i'm at day 15 which means yesterday or so i should have o'd. dtd mon and wed so fingers crossed. I have decided that if I am oh so lucky this month I am not going to tell db till fathers day, give him a gift with a handmade card that has a photo of a positive test
I feel good about this month but, I kind of think that every month so I just don't know. I think I am kind of rambling...guess I am now in the tww.
who's with me ?????
I hear ya Tina!
hehe i was planning on something like that.. was going to go buy a 0000 jumpsuit and wrap it up with the test and give it to him after a candlit dinner at home I just dnt know if I could keep my mouth shut that long...
what does everyone think about me testing tonight or tomorow? Ive been thinking about what you said milly and im just not sure if i can hold out hehe.. is it technically to early for a BFP at i think its 6 days till Af is due
I dont know, maybe I should wait a couple days... its just that im so tired for no reason and i dnt know if im imagining things but it looks like my nipples have gotten a bit darker (TMI) And jugs are so damn sore!
mind you most of that could be af on her way
Kyrawolf-i'd wait at least til the morning i have never had a pos hpt earlier than 4 day's before AF due with my 3 boy's the line showed up real strong 4 day's before but with abbi nothing until the day AF due and it was so faint.
Tina- what a good idea when i found out i was preg with DH and mine's first baby together (abbi) i was so excited it had been 11 years since my last and my hubby never thought he would have any more kid's we had tried for 5 mth's and being a west tiger's fan i went out and bought a tiny singlet that said daddy's little tiger on it and a tiny pair of bootie's the look on his face i will never forget i hope i can do it again.
Kyrawolfe-So did you weaken and test this morning!
Tina-I found ff went on my temps and as it is hard to get an accurate temp unless you do it as soon as you wake without even moving my temp's changed even just sitting up in bed so i go off opk's the one's online are real good and i only get a dark line just before i ov and on the day then the line is very light for the rest of the time ff kept changing my ov day based on my temp's it drove me batty.
AFM-i'm enjoying my holiday and i think AF is definately comming monday i was so cranky yesterday i went off my nut at centrelink they are holding up my compensation settlement as they havn't signed the release for the insurance company to release my check it has been 8 week's now and i didd't even get any centrelink benifit's while i was injured from my car accident it was covered by workers comp but they have to check and make sure i diddnt get any payment's for god sake i was only off work for two week's then went back to work on light duties which work cover paid for gggggggggrrrrrrrr!!!!!! they p i s s! me off i have paid all my deposit's for our ivf and have drained our saving's so the money is reeeeeaaaaaaaaalllllllly needed right now.
Oh my gosh so much to catch up on. Have been away and it was sooo nice to have a little holiday, much needed!! And my first AF came after the d&c , exactly a 28 day cycle, so very excited about that, TMI - it was very heavy for the first few days but then literally stopped and no cramping so gotta be happy. Can't try again till Oct so will just be charting to figure out what my cycle is doing, although it's going to sooo hard not to try when i know i am O'ing, its like missing a major opportunity!! Anyway, going to accupuncture again on monday and just generally cruising along. Hope everyone is well and we have some BFP's on the way. Will write more and catch up later.
Ferals, I am not sure if af coming for oyu is a good thing or a bad thing. I am kinda hoping that you get a sticky bean with out the aid of IVF, but I know you would all be a lot less worried if you know your bub is all ok. I hope that makes sense.... (((hugs)))
Of course I was way to weak to wait LOL
Of course I did a test !
both me and DH thought we saw a second line appear ever so faintly but then it dissapeared again.. So TBH I have No idea whats going on.. Im still skeptical enough to say theres a pretty damn gud chance RB is on the way to bring me down again lol.
Im going to stick to the idea that its way too early for a BFP.. DH is excited so hes bought me a 3 pack of tests and im going to do a test again in a couple days..
Dnt get excited for me cuz im really skeptical that any of this meqans anything significant at this point ..
Tanya-yes you make sense part of me would love to get pg natrually and avoid ivf and the other part want's to avoid the worry of if the baby would be effected so i guess i wont be disapointed if i'm not pregnant this month.
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) Today when i got out of bed at 3.30pm (im on nightshift) i had a shower and went down the street and had quite bad cramping and a wet feeling down there, sorry for TMI. I thought to myself surely not AF is not due for at least another week, and surely enough when i got home she had arrived GRRR so angry
I just dnt know if I could keep my mouth shut that long...
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