Some doctors need to learn somethng about emotions.
Kbowman- Dont let that doctor get you down....

When I was pg, the first doc we went to was one i went to as a child. He didnt say anything encouraging at all. His first question was: Do you have private health insurance? I didnt. he then said well where do you want to have the baby. That was it. Oh and he asked if the pg was planned or not. It wasnt but it wasnt a bad thing. As we were going to be first time parents, we left there feeling more confused and as scared as ever.
So then I went to another doc and she was the complete turnaround. She gave advice as to the things to avoid and so forth.
The nurses at the hospital after the m/c were so so, like they had been through it many times.

My advice is to stay positive and bugger the negatitivity.