thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss March 2007

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Bright
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    Hi Girls, Hope you are all doing well.

    I just wanted to pop in quickly and say hi. My weight loss is going really well, i'm into my 2nd week, and the first week i lost 4.3kg, so i'm stoked. It's just one step closer to having my dream of being a mother realised.

    Nicole - Welcome to our little group, and i just wanted to say that i know exactly how you feel. I had been TTC for 2 years when we fell pg, only to lose our little angel at just under 8 weeks. It has now been 3 more years, and still nothing, so i made the decision to step away and concentrate on me for a while and lose ALL the excess weight i have before TTC again probably at the start of next year (which will make it 6 years of TTC, but by then i'll have a body that is at it's peak, and ready to welcome a baby into our lives). All i can say is hang in there. Look at any obsticles that may be in your life that could be effecting your fertility (sorry i don't know your history and if there is a medical reason) and work with that along with everything you are doing. It will be so worth it in the end. Good luck hun.

    Janeo - hi love....i have a good feeling about you this month xxxxx

    Jen - Welcome to our thread, and i see you are in Sunbury...me too!!!

    Hi to everyone else. I'm thinking of you always, and hoping a praying that you all clear out of here in the next few months. I'm always here reading away, so if you need anything, or have any questions, just ask.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    melbourne
    149

    Nicole – so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my first angel at the same time. I do have to say though that I’m feeling lucky this month and ready to try again, maybe we will both get a little luck and get BFP’s together! My SIL also just had beautiful little girl (3 weeks ago). I don’t grudge them that blessing at all, but it hard not to think that I should be 6 months by now.

    Jane – hope you feel better soon and up to some super seducing!

    Salt – So sorry to hear about your friends moving. That is sad news, but look on the bright side, you can have holidays to visit them!

    Jen – hope AF arrives soon. Waiting sux!

    Shan – WELL DONE! That is a fantastic effort on the weight loss. I’m sure you will be in fighting fit order in no time.

    Am still waiting for O, but no sign yet. Am thinking should start BDing soon but DH has been feeling the stress of TTCing and don't want to wear him out to early on! Anyone else have that dilema?

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    VIC
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    Shan- If you ever need a walking buddy, let me know seeing as I live close. Are you going to gym or are you doing it yourself? Good work on the weight loss to date.

    Janeo- Sometimes you just want to go to bed and sleep dont you!? Good luck

    Leyla and Nicole- Positive thoughts sent out. March is the month for you girls!

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2006
    Perth
    766

    Morning girls,

    Shan - good to hear from you - I was just thinking that it has been a while since I have read a post by you. Congrats on the weight loss - that is fantastic!! Well done.

    Sarah - boohoo on AF arriving. I think I have a short luteal phase too which is a bit of a worry, but it can def change, so hopefully will be ok next time!

    Leyla - I think most DH's feel the pressure when TTC - mine is hopeless! They just seem to have a problem with doing it at a certain time rather than just whenever they feel like it. I'm not really sure what to do about it, though. Best of luck getting him to co-operate!!

    Jane - good luck catching that egg!

    Salt - sorry about your friends moving away. I totally know what you mean - some of our friends who have been a great support to us will be moving away soon, and I don't know what I will do without them! At least we have the BB girls to talk to!

    Hi to everyone else.

    I am just chugging along in the 2WW, still having all sorts of imaginary symptoms that are not possibly real at 4DPO. I am already thinking about when to test - as so many pgs fail in the early stages before AF is due, I am thinking maybe it is best to wait until AF is officially late before testing. But I know how pathetic I am and that I will want to start testing as soon as it is possible to get a positive result! Oh well, I guess I will wait and see if I can be strong or not!!

    Have a great day everyone.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    1,223

    Hi everyone.
    I'm sorry I haven't been around much lately but I still haven't got a replacement computer GRRRR the insurace company.

    Anyway I hope you are all doing well.

    I just want to let you all know that I finally got my much wanted last Friday and had it confirmed on Monday. I'm 5 weeks and 3 days pregnant and my hcg was 600. I am soooo excited but a little worried too. I can't believe this happened on my natural cycle. I am having a scan done at 8 weeks just to make sure everything is ok and for my own piece of mind too. My little bubba is due mid November.
    I want to say thank you to all of you for you support over the last 6 months and I hope to read of loads more BFPs here soon.

    Kerry CONGRATULATIONS on your bfp. How's everything going with you hun? Have you had any more tests?

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2006
    Perth
    766

    OMG Mako congratulations!!! That is such good news. And that HCG reading is fantastic!!! Yay - I am so happy for you.

    We have had a few BFPs in here lately - let's hope for some more soon and some very sticky pregnancies!!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    Sydney
    1,365

    Thanks for all your good luck messages... u all rock.... great support system

    Shan, not too sure if there is a medical reason as yet, hopefully the gyno can put me in the right direction next month
    Good luck to you with TTC

    You know the funny thing last year when I had my MC I wished that I could have a MC that way after soooooooo many months of trying I had something to show for it.... most of the time you feel like you fail, month after month
    Not that I want to put myself through that again, but I feel like I'm a little bit closer.
    However next time I'll be carefull what I wish for.

    To everyone else all my thoughts are with you in TTC, have a great afternoon.