Kit, I think Pram of Justice is a very good idea. WTF? What is that about - saying you're preg to stop an argument? Is that not a massive light bulb and siren saying "Something's WRONG here!" It is very like my friend who is getting pg to save her relationship. Her DF is so lovely too - gambling prob or otherwise, I'm sure he just does it cos he's stuck with HER.

Anyway, now you just need to get in first