Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

[Cherished]

Sorry to keep you hanginig girls!!! NO AF YAY (yet anyway)... temp is still high!

erybery you chart stalker! heheheh YAY I too hope there is good news BUT I do not feel pg, no sore bb's no nausea so we will STILL just wait and see... !!!

Ferals it's still early to get a BFP.... You are not out of the game just yet oh and the chart thing... I dont' know how to get something on bb thta is on your home computer... I only know how to link my ff chart to my signature... Is your chart on ff? if it isnt' you can make a ff chart. Let me know if you wuld like help in doing that and I will pm you xoxox OMG your house sounds amazing!!!! did yo ubuy or are you renting? (sorry if I misssed that part in another post) Where is it.... it really sounds fantastic!

Smallfryplus YES start charting!!! go to ff (fertility friend) right now! hehehhe

Sunbeam sometimes I preview the post and than log out thinking that I actually clicked on submit

Hi Anila, Greenslw, countingdays, coco & Milly... Hope I didn't forget anyone! Sometimes I forget which thread I am in

[LittleOnes]

Smallfryplus YES start charting!!! go to ff (fertility friend) right now! hehehhe

hahaha I did exactly that after posting on waiting... investigating how to link it to signature now though it is an incredibly incomplete chart just now as I have not been doing any charting to date.

[ferrals5]

cherised1- i have downloaded a bbt chart and printed it out i will get me DH to help me do it on the computer and put it in my post's i'm not real good at that stuff yet the house we are renting until after we have baby and i finish maternity leave then we plan to buy just don't want to commit until baby is here and safe.we live on the cental coast at bluehaven at the moment and will be moving to woongarrah about 10 min away.
I hope you get your BFP (cant beleive you are so calm and havn't tested yet) i'm praying my RB stays away.

[Anila]

For some reason i didnt get any notification that posts had been made in this thread last night,
so many people to say hi to
Smallfryplus, cherished1, ferrals4, Sunbeam, milly5 and erybery.

Well i got some bd this morning , and i confesed to hubby that i am just as scared as he is, and it was nice, iykwim, we just sort of held each other and he said, hes glad that he isnt the only one.
So all i have to do, is keep bd, and just hope my cycle stays normal .

ferrals4, it is still early hunni, give it a few more days then test. Remember that horrid saying, its not over till af shows up!!!

cherished1, how exciting, i hope rb/af stays away. I really hope you get a sticky bfp!!!

Smallfryplus, men are funny things, i didnt realise it would hurt hubby so bad, but im glad i got to see that side of him, i see him a little differently if that makes sense, he always looks so tough on the outside, its good to see a softer side.

[ferrals5]

Off to work ladies will not be able to talk to you all until wed night (it will kill me) have a good day everyone.

[mrzbaby]

Hi Everyone,
I am still around.
I just needed to take a break from it all for a while and build up some strength on my own.
I am not sure if I posted this I am sure I didn't.....
OK..... Bleeding and pain from a bleeding cyst on my ovary from the clomid folicle..so no clomid this cycle or temping. Can still have a go naturally this month and we sort of are but we are not going into it ( BD ) this month like we have before..
I think I o'd today?? got the whole pain thin ghappenning and I did a OPK test yesterday and it was my first really clear straight away positive, had EWM the night before and BD..... any how it has taken me sooooo long to read everyones post and catch up I dare not do persies at the moment lol!!!
take care
Em

[coco1411]

Yay!! Welcome back!!

Sounds like you're ovulating or have ovulated! WOO HOO!!

We're all still here lol Im sure it will happen for at least ONE of us soon but sheesh!

I am with you, not keen to be "trying" if it doesnt happen this month. Im waiting to see the gyno on june 22nd because first thing she'll ask is "have you been charting?" so may aswell keep doing it until I see her!

I thought we were pg last month with the bd timing, the progesterone being high and a triphasic chart...eveything was text book then I see light browish *i had to squint* spotting. :| grrr..

Good luck hon!

[milly5]

Hello ladies!!!

Smallfry- I am also doing uni, and I can SO relate the 'not being able to concentrate thing!!'

Ferrals - I got a BFN 2 days before AF due even with an early test. It wasn't until the day after AF due that I got the BFP. As they say, it's not over till the fat lady sings!!

Sunbeam - Here's to matching BB!!
I kind of chart: I have used the OPKs and watched CM, but haven't temped yet. I have been a bit reluctant to temp because I work odd hours and wouldn't be temping at the same time each day (though I do know it's possible).
Next cycle I am going to use a fertility monitor, because even with the OPKs, there still was some confustion (light lines as opposed to dark lines). This cycle, I have had a "month off" so to speak, though I KNOW when I ovulated because I have never felt Ov pain like it.
This cycle is already "longer" than typical, it took over three weeks for my HCG to drop, and then I ov'd soon after. So, I expect to have a "visitor" in about another 10 days or so, though I expect that AF won't be as timely as usual.
Has your HCG returned to normal yet? Sorry I'm not much help with the temps, I'm sure some of the other ladies here may be able to help.

Smallfry - I forgot how good Dr Seuss is!!!

Cherished ... are we there yet???

Woo Anila!! go the BD!! LOL Do you know where you are in your cycle??

Hello mrzbaby!

Hello again Coco!
Coco - I've got my sticks so I'm now all set. YAY!

Last night I was reading the Toni Weschler Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book, and I got so depressed reading about the declining fertility with age. Depressing.

Bye for now, I'm off for a few days (no not fun, just work).
Cheerio.

[Anila]

hey there mrzbaby, coco and milly!

milly im on cd15 today, and usually o on cd 19, but dont have any signs that im going too.

Hope ur having/had a good day

[Cherished]

Hi beautiful Milly I am testing tomorrow if AF doesn't show up, it will be CD31 & only 11DPO... I'm not holding my breath though for a BFP.... With regard to the temping... I am obsessed! Sometimes I test at 4am, 5am etc but 6am is the time I record it... Having said that I can often get different temps which can change within 45mins! So I really think you do need to take it at the same time every day, it is important especially around 'o' time.

Mrzbaby

Well I'm gonna go and put a loaf of bread in the bread maker

[LittleOnes]

cherished - my breadmaker is my best friend... now if it were only as easy to 'put a bun in the oven' hehehe Good luck for tomorrow for for you and a

Hi Coco, milly

mrzbaby, solitude can be good thing. People keep telling me to meditate. I'm not so good at it but apparently it's very helpful, I get distracted all the time when I try

[Cherished]

Smallfryplus I set the bread maker on the timer last night for the 1st time with a yummo new receipie that I found on the net... it's spelt with linseed, maple syrup etc... anyway I havn't used the timer before and I must have not pressed the 'start' so I was expecting bread at 6am but I don't have it.... THEN I thought well I don't want to waste the mix so I'll set it for 11am and accidently 'started' it and it kneeded it a little bit SO it looks totally stuffed lol so I guess I will see what it looks like at 11am

OK SO I'm 11DPO, temp rise again this morning and NO AF! Got a BFN but that's ok because it so early I didn't expect too much... Still no pg symptoms AND not much of a feeling of AF anymore?????

[LittleOnes]

cherished - that bread sounds yum My fave loaf is using white bread base and adding mashed banana, sultanas and vanilla. Toast it up and have it with a coffee in the morning, used to do that every day at work... of course now I'm almost 100% off coffee so haven't been making that bread lately!! Maybe should go the decaf... I do have a good one.
I have to say I'm feeling very excited for you and hoping and because it would be so great for you to get a

[ferrals5]

Ok so i couldn't help myself i had to have a quick look before work,DH got a call to do extra shift and left the laptop at home ( hehe it's all mine )

Mrzbaby- glad your back i hope the break did you some good.

Hi milly,anila,smallfryplus,coco,greenslw,cherished,s unbeam,erybery,counting days.

Quick update my temp is still up i woke up this morning feeling dizzy and queasy (which i have never had morning sickness so i have no clue why i felt like it) but i had another BFN this morning and i feel like RB is on the way i'm due to get RB friday so i will not test again until i'm late.

I'm off to work again! i will do persies tonight.

[Sunbeam]

Hello everyone ,

All that talk of yummy bread has made me hungry. I woke up to the smell of onions as I'd made veg soup last night and had the house all shut up because of the terrible weather we're having. I'm trying to eat very healthy and lose a few kilos as I've now gained 11 1/2kg since TTC.

cherished1 and ferrals4- I am so excited at the prospect of 2 this month I have everything crossed for both of you .

Milly5- I am really hoping i did not miss my o this month. My temp was up at 37.0 for the 3 weeks after the m/c then when my HCG dropped to 0 my temp fell to 36.4 and has risen in steps since then. I felt no o pains or saw any other signs of it but my OPKs were darkish but not dark enough to be positive so I'm wondering if it could possibly have happened just as my HCG dropped!?!?! Oh well if I have to wait a month I have to wait, and I'll try and do it in a happy Dr. Seuss kind of way.

Just wanted to ask if any of you dream about babies? Odd question maybe but I seem to be dreaming about them endlessly. Last night I had a beautiful baby boy, he was all swaddled up on my lap and I kept kissing his little cheeks, I couldn't take my eyes off him he was so gorgeous. I woke up feeling very happy.

Hope you all have a lovely day.

[Greenslw]

Hi all, the TWW has a hold of me and I'm feeling flat.
Still feeling but wish Monday would hurry up. I NEED TO KNOW ALREADY.
Feeling really really tired the last few days, could curl up under my desk right now.

Had some cake this morning (not good) and feeling bloated so I"m not on my best game today.
Sunbeam, I had a beautiful dream about a baby boy a few weeks before my last FET. woke up so happy.

for you ferrals

Goodluck Cherrished Hopefully good news all round this month

milly but did you see the 65 year old woman on the news. there's always hope

Hi to everyone else hope you're all having great wednesday.
Three days till girls night at my place (yayayaya) good to have a distraction.....

[Greenslw]

OMG I'm freeking out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a yellow brownish discharge.... this is what started last time............. oh does this mean no baby????????????????

I phoned the clinic and they said it could be normal. NORMAL what nothing should come out of there for nine months..........

Any calming words..

[coco1411]

Sorry hon I dont know how that all works but hope you are ok xx Your feelings sound very positive so for you