Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

[Cherished]

Greenslw my friend stay calm that will be best for everyone

[ferrals5]

Greenslw-dont jump the gun yet it could very well be baby settling in to your uterus lining you hear about people spotting even bleeding in early pregnancy as things take hold and settle in.

I had a shocker day at work today i was on the verge of tears all day very hormonal i never usually get this bad when RB due every time my mum spoke to me i had to walk away so i wouldn't cry (WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME) has anyone felt like this in early pregnancy i havn't with previous pregnancies so i'm at a loss my mothers only comment to me was that's life and you will fall pregnant when your body is ready (REAL COMFORTING MUM)
I worked out how to add my bbt chart.

[LittleOnes]

greenslw - it's possible that it's implantation? Apparently that can cause some discharge. Or, there are women who have a period right through pregnancy. I hope so much that it's one of those two things for you. You are in my

ferrals - I was like that when I was preg before Easter. Crying over ads on TV even. It was terrible. I can't remember how bad it was with my first two pregs but know that I was an emotional roller coaster then as well.

[Cherished]

Yay still no RB (AF) & my temp is still high... keeping my fingers crossed!

[JENNY19831176]

[B]hi ya all of you im new, from uk where is everyone from then?
i had a misscarage in aug 08 and still trying now had 2 spells done(yes im mad lol) u will try anythink
does anyone no any good tablets for male and female to try when trying for a babym
i had a dc when had misscarage .
i have just looked all over the net and found these
menevit,for him
and some think called viex or some think for me,
some times gets me down i cry every time i come on my period think why me i got preg before no problem i have a 9 year old daughter to,

get back to me and wow what a lovley site

[ferrals5]

Morning ladies i wont say it's good RB is here right on cue like clock work i woke this morning and my temp is still high 36.8 but went to the loo and there it was brown cm so i guess i'm doing it all again this month.

Cherished- i hope RB doesn't turn up for you

Smallfryplus-well it's not pregnant hormones i've never been so pms before i hope that doesn't happen again it was terrible.

jenny- welcome and sorry that you are here but the girl's are great and we are all after the same thing a BFP and a healthy baby my DH takes menevit and zinc and vitamin c i take elevit, vitex, iodine and extra folic tablet's and i don't drink caffine DH still doe's (naughty boy) and i'm an aussie girl

Greenslw-what's happening today is everything ok?

[LittleOnes]

ferrals - I was hoping so much that it was early preg hormones making you like that. So sorry that it wasn't.

jenny - welcome to the community I always wish I was meeting people in here for different reasons but if any of us can help you as much as I've felt helped in here then it makes things a bit better. (does that make sense?!?!) I'm in Melbourne, Aus.

cherished - that is great news! (ps. how did that loaf turn out?!)

greenslw - how are you this morning? Anything further on yesterday?

sunbeam - you gave me a great idea... vegie soup last night for dinner and it was soooo good the house smells divine this morning too!

milly, coco, anila, mrzbaby hope you all have a fabulous day!

for everyone!! Think we could all do with some good news in here!

[Cherished]

Ferrals GOD DAM RB so sorry honey * BIG HUGS*

Smallfryplus it was the BEST BREAD EVER!!!! just perfect! Big heavy load but when I cut it it's light soft and moist inside, the linseed throughout it looks amazing and spelt bread is just so yummy anyway (little sweeter than normal wheat flour) and the crust is perfect too, not too soft not too hard.. What winner I even took a photo and put it on our forum(I mean the forum which dh and i have which is jsut for us... dh made it, it's FANTASTIC cause we can keep track of stuff under heaps of different catagories eg work, house, holidays, family ie ttc lol and heaps of other stuff like finances etc... we LOVE it) bread was great!

jenny I think most of us are from Australia

[ferrals5]

I just got the worst new's my genetic councilor rang to tell me the genetic specialist and the professor of the fetal medicine unit at royal the north shore want to see DH and i on the 10th of june as they got abbi's D.N.A test's back and the final autopsy report it look's like we are carrier's of a gene faut that caused our daughter's abnormalities they will test us and try to find the gene responsible then when we fall pregnant again they will do a C.V.S and see if that baby is also effected we are devastated we can have healthy children to our ex's but not each other i called in sick to work as i am crying and cant stop what do we do risk having a baby together or give up we have a 1 in 4 chance each pregnancy

[LittleOnes]

Ferrals - that is such a tragedy. I'm so sorry for you and DH. Is the gene detectable in the frosties before putting them in?

[Cherished]

oh ferrals4 I just don't know what to say... In the week that I found out that I had lost the bub, before I had the D&C I dreamt every night something awful and one of them was that dh & I carried a gene fault exactly like what you are talking about... but it's actually happening to you ... I was very upset about it for days and I woke up crying that night

[Greenslw]

ferrals I am so sorry for your bad news. Day off work sounds like a good thing. DH around for cuddles?

Me No more sign of any colour really since last night, keep thinking I feel something but when I go to the loo nothing. Who knows. Last time that's how my MC started a bit of yellow in the morning (thought it was from the pesaries) then clots and clumps of brown I think it just brought back all the trauma. After all I haven't tested yet and who know's what's up there for the best.

Really crampy today, not like last time either kind of random spots of pain like someone has a pointy stick in my belly (both sides at different times) then my side aches then I want to spew, then nothing.

Normally when AF is arriving I really look for a BD with DP and haven't done that either. So Still all the signs, especially the sence of smell, I can notice bad breath at 20 paces. (not good at a meeting I tell you) blah

So I'm still playing the waiting game until Monday DP is off to his place in the countrey this weekend, so I am the house to myself and my sister in law is coming over for a girls night. Was hoping DP would stay but he and step son have a cold so happy they and their germs are out....

I feel a bit of a goose for yesterday, I really apreciate being able to vent and share with you all as not many people know what I'm going through

[Where there's hope]

I just got the worst new's my genetic councilor rang to tell me the genetic specialist and the professor of the fetal medicine unit at royal the north shore want to see DH and i on the 10th of june as they got abbi's D.N.A test's back and the final autopsy report it look's like we are carrier's of a gene faut that caused our daughter's abnormalities they will test us and try to find the gene responsible then when we fall pregnant again they will do a C.V.S and see if that baby is also effected we are devastated we can have healthy children to our ex's but not each other i called in sick to work as i am crying and cant stop what do we do risk having a baby together or give up we have a 1 in 4 chance each pregnancy

Ferrals - I have PM'ed you
WTH x

[juleswa]

Hi Everyone,

sounds like there's a lot going on in this thread, so i wish those of you waiting, good luck, and ferrals, just want to say thinking of you, and hope you're able to take the time out you need to get your head around it all.

Here's my story:
Had a m/c 29th April at 11w, but bub was only 6w2d, had positive and rising hcg results last Friday so thought i was pregnant again by accident, but af came on sunday so that was a no go too. had another hcg test today so waiting for the results now just to make sure that it has gone down and there is nothing else going on. so i guess in the space of 4 weeks i've had 2 m/c's and i can't quite get my head around that somehow.

has anyone else experienced anything similar?

As my body never really got a chance to recover from the first m/c b4 we may be been pregnant again, we're thinking to wait for another cycle before ttc again, although i desperately want to be pregnant again and am having a rather emotional day today.

not really sure what else I wanted to say here!?!?!??!

just have to wait for my results and see what happens. I was reading this thread and saw some of you mention that some women have periods through pregnancy so now somewhere deep down, i'm maybe hoping for that to be the case with me. I know it's a long shot and i really am clutching at straws, but i guess untill you really know it's completely over, there's always that small shimmer of doubt. Although I also temp which has gone down, so i really don't think it's at all possible.

anyways, hi to all, hope you're having an ok day and glad that you're all here to support eachother.

take care

jules

[ferrals5]

Smallfryplus- we havn't got to that stage yet we will wait and see what they say on the
10th of june from what i know so far abbi's abnormalities were because of a faulty gene we carrie they think they know what syndrome or disorder she had but need to test DH and i to look at those gene's that cause it if they find what they think it is well then they can test embryos if we do ivf or fetus if we concieve natrually we have decided not to go ivf we will try twice natrually and if we don't get a healthy baby out of two then with abbi that makes 3 so we will give up as it is to heart breaking

Cherised1-DH is at work my mum is comming over this arvo and sister has already been over to see me i just cant believe it could happen to us after losing abbi and now this.

Greenslw-thankyou i couldn't go to work my eye's are burning i have rang the hospital for a councilor where i had abbi for some help i feel in shock i just want to pinch myself and wake up my fingers are still crossed for you.

[Cherished]

ferrals I am so upset for you, I have tears streaming down my face. hang in there, we are all there for you xoxo

[coco1411]

ferals, hope you are ok sweetheart. Sending you some warm fuzzies. xxx Eliza

[ferrals5]

Ok i've calmed down my mum and DH have said don't panic wait to find out what syndrome/disorder we carry and then look into our options my DH even mentioned looking into IVF where they test embryo's before they implant them but at 4000 a go i'm not to sure if that's possible i used a lot of our savings when i had time off with abbi and the cost's we spent on 2nd opinion ultrasounds and extra tests and petrol cost's to and from RNS daily the cremation (the list goe's on) but i just want to say thankyou for your kind word's everyone this has been a terrible day and i just feel lost and don't know what to do i have my heart set on a baby with the man of my dreams he is my life and i want nothing more than to give him a healthy baby.
I hope everyone had a better day than me and i will do some persies tomorrow sorry to be so self absorbed i'm going to soak in the bath