Oh Kit, My heart was pounding as I read that.... are you okay? Those numbers are great. My HCG was only at 3900 at just over 7 weeks. (On the decline, I suspect). I realise mine were very low as I was about to mc, but 10000 is a huge difference.

Let's look at the good things here. DH was there. Tiger has a heartbeat, and your HCG is right up there. That's a pretty good handful of good things, I think. I know how heart wrenching it is to see all that blood, and I can understand the panic you must have felt. It's okay to be scared. You'd have to be made of steel not to be afraid right now. I don't know what kind of advice to offer, except to take it one step at a time. I know that's pretty useless but it's all I can come up with without sounding patronizing. I'm sure you'll get enough condescending comments from well meaning people around you, should you tell them what's going on.

You'll be in my thoughts all night and day until we hear from you again. Stay strong, and I'll be sending you all the good luck vibes I can muster. I don't have any more words, but I do have a huge HUG here for you. xoxoxoxoxoxo

Oh, and if it was me, I would still go to the scan. I don't know why they would tell you not to? I think the more information you can get, the better. Best of luck, sweetie. I am so so sorry you've experienced such a scare.