Possum- How bloody frustrating!!! i hate that! u know wat i do now.. when i know im going to do a long post i write it on a word document and then just copy and paste it on here.. cos its happened to me far too many times where my internet connection has dropped out etc and have lost everything!

Damprye- I think an u/s sounds good for u.. did u have a d&c after m/c or natural? i have heard of bits still being left there even from a d&c so it wld be worth a look.. cos yeah it doesnt really make sense why ur spotting, getting cramps and hot flushes. Good luck with finding out!

MsKara- Im so glad my quote helped u to get thru.. i just love it. I found it a couple of weeks after my m/c.. it made me realise that yep u cant move on when ur still living in the past.. its a bit like that quote that goes when 1 door closes another door opens but u dont normally realise cos u are still thinking about the past too much to see the new beginning.. i know its not exactly like that.. but u get my drift!! And yeah i tell my dh all about my opks and bleeding etc.. i figure if i have to go thru heartache, worry, confusion, frustration etc.. he shld too. I think it helps for them to understand what we’re going thru too.. they get off way too lightly otherwise! And u will find it doesn’t affect them quite as much as it affects us.. guys are a lot less emotional..they deal with things differently to us. I also find if dh knows that i got a neg. Hpt or my bodies playing up etc he can be the positive one and help me to think we CAN thru and it WILL eventually happen for us!
But with all that said, if u think its best if dh doesnt completely cop the tough part of this ttc then thats all good too! I bet mine wishes i didnt tell him everything all the time!

Angelfish- Welcome! So sorry for ur loss im so glad we have all helped u.. i know i lurked for a while and it was a huge help reading everyone elses stories. Dont be shy now.. we all know what a tough journey this can be. xx

Iona- Test tomoro!!! Come on!!! We need another bfp!!!!

Matthews mum- Sorry i forgot u were doing the fet this month.. oh good luck with the defrosting of ur little embie.. i hope everything goes exactly to plan and u are utd in no time at all!

Forshelby- How u going??? I had the weirdest dream about u last nite! I dreamt that i found out that u were actually one of my friends called chantelle (thats not ur name by any chance??!) haha.. it was very very weird! i remember being all kinda embarrassed cos i had said so much stuff on here that i dont even tell my dh and friends etc.. and when i found out it was her i spun out cos i hadnt even realised she was ttc! but ur story fully came into my dream.. like how 2 yrs ago u had m/c and ur dp kinda freaked out so u cldnt try for a while etc.. i was really suprised cos i hadnt even realised she was with anyone! Very strange!

AFM- Just waiting waiting waiting! No feelings of af arriving at all. Cant wait to get bt done tomoro morning.

Hello to everyone else too!!!!!! xxxx