Toccara my thoughts are with you, keep the lines of communication open during times like this, allow each other to cry and scream and greif - but never blame. It is so important to go through this together as one - no-one is ever to blame for this horrid experience. As plc1805 said "the key is to get answers and then there will be physical proof". All the best sweetheart, we are always here for you xoxo