Indy: congratulations on your BFP
I think one of the bad things about these at-home pregnancy tests is that we know so early that we have that much more time to worry about things than our mothers did when they were pregnant. I'm 41, and when my mom had me, she had to wait until she missed two periods, then they did something called a "rabbit test". I'm not sure what that was, exactly. Best of luck

KrystieLove: sending cyberhug.

mumstheword: welcome and

mollycat: it must have been hard for you to come to that decision, but it also sounds healing. You do get to a place where you just have to move forward with your life. People don't always understand just how all-consuming ttc is (or how trying--people always think it's "fun"...stupid people...). Hope you won't be a stranger!

Mannie2903: sending more cyberhugs. I'm glad you guys are talking it out and able to come to some agreement as to your outlook on this. I also believe in leaving things to God's timing, but it's so hard sometimes!!! Will be praying hard for you, too.

Mel1979: keep us posted and I'm keeping fingers crossed for you

fificlaire: I"m so happy your scan went well! Sending encouragement vibes for the 26th

jenushka: congrats on your scan! You must be so happy and relieved

smilanatu: so sorry. Sending cyberhug

Toccarra50: IKWYM. Just because early loss is "common" doesn't make it any less heartbreaking. Sending lots of cyberhugs and prayers in your direction. Thank goodness we have a place like this to come and vent...

AFM: I had a major freak-out last night, worrying about everything from "are my b00bs tender enough" to "why aren't I going to the bathroom more often". I'm more calm today, but I guess that's what happens when you've had losses before and then become pregnant. You worry about EVERYTHING...