Ruthie - that is truly moving - thank you so much for sharing
A book that helped me a lot when TTC and recommended by a fellow BB-er is;
Spirit Babies: How to Communicate with the Child You're Meant to Have - Walter Makichen
Plc, Fifi & Flowerchild: Isn't that story just beautiful??? the first time I read that ( a friend sent it to me by e-mail on Sept 13th the day after my D&C) I just wept.
Gosh.. If we were all neighbors I bet we would all be in my living room right now sipping hot chocolate and sobbing together!!
Sometimes a good cry results in this soothing peace.
I love you ladies.
Oh... Plc:.. a Book that I'm reading and think it's just awesome is supernatural childbirth by Jackie Mize. OMg It's a MUST read for Angel baby mommies!!! ♥
Mannie : Stay strong momma.. WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU ♥ !!!!!!!
Last edited by RuthiePCOS momma; November 2nd, 2008 at 07:36 AM.
Its just a fitting day to have gone to Mass today as its all souls day, so I prayed for my babies souls and those of all you lovely ladies who have also lost babies this year. Life is eternal and I know that I will meet my two babies when I too make it to heaven so I shed a tear or two at Mass today but am now stronger to fight the good fight ahead of me next year. Your right Ruthie, I'm going to give my body time to heal and get back into sync again and will give it til Jan 2009 to try again, because my spirit needs to heal and try and think of going through this whole process again.
I loved that Spirit baby story, and cryed reading it, thankyou, that little boy had a great take on where our angel babies are and I know that eventually they are all born to women somewhere in the world. Life is a gift and we just need to make the most of it and know that we are as women are blessed to be able to create a miracle so here's to Jan 2009!!!
Mannie - I am so sorry for your loss. Life can be so unfair. I'm glad to hear that going to Mass helped and you are feeling stronger but don't be afraid to grieve when you need to.
Praying for a 2009 baby for all of us.
Remember we are all here for you if you need to talk or vent.
Talk care of yourself.
Ruthie - that story was so touching. It is 1 year today since our m/c so I read it with tears in my eyes and hope that one day soon we will have our 'spirit' baby.
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