thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October '08 #2

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Brisbane
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    Hi Lovelies

    Melissa - good on you - I cannot believe that you made pink curtains. You are amazing!
    Smi - Good luck at state babes and catch that egg (you can sing that to the tune of catch the pigeon - showing my age)
    Fifi - I love seeing your post - you got your BFP on the same day I lost Charles, it makes me feel part of the beautiful circle of life.
    Jen - Hello back at ya sugar and awesome fundraising!
    Mannie - Darling that is awful. Good luck on Thursday - I know what you mean about not telling people - but there are some people who you know will support you no matter what. Keep us posted love.
    Ruthie - Honey when are you POASing??? Need some hand holding? I can set my alarm!

    AFM - Listening to "it's business time" by Flight of the Concords at the moment and laughing my head off. I am just biding my time until next Tuesday!
    Bring on a BFP
    Hugs
    A

  2. #2
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    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
    400

    dellydoo...you know that tune is now stuck in my brain for the remainder of the day!
    PS...I am older than you

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    GOOD NEWS LADIES!!!!! hubby got his Health insurance form and it will kick in NOv 1st!! YAYAYAYAYAY that means I can see a doc pretty much SOON!! WOOT WOOT!!
    ..ok..ok..and something else.. since my faint faint "ghost lines" and mixed BFNS 2 weeks ago..... well.. more symptoms are popping up and it scares me in a way..ok
    from back then I just had like light cramping..tested and got mixed BFNs with super super faint lines... ok so this week.. especially yesterday morning I felt nausea..crazy feeling.. my stomach has been upset and back to the "sluggish feeling down there".( more CM than I wish for). Boy did I have that with this pregnancy.. I know every woman's cervix is diff and there are many theories out there.. but I really was one of em who checked my cervical position changes while TTC my past bub and once I was PG I noticed it did stay high and super soft.. guess what I have a few days checking mine and yup..it went from super low and firm 2 weeks after my D&C (when I stopped bleeding) to super high and soft now. BBS are starting to bother me last night and today.. I didn't feel them at all 2 days ago and before that.. headaches.. I had a migraine 2 days straight just like this past bub..soooooooo... what daya think??..POAS for fun??..just to see??.. if BFN I will be happy... cuz I want to see a fertility specialist..but if it happens to be a BFP (oh boy oh boy..am I scared) at least the HI kicks in soon enough for me to see a special doc for high rick pregnancies and hopefully get appropriate meds to help this baby stay (if such thing )
    uumm..... I'm kinda blabbing cuz I'm nervous at the thought... but hey if I did conceive that would fast forward a lot of preconception screenings and docs visits.. so that is always good. wink

    I'm not going to ask for baby dust at all...cuz I'm more nervous than excited... but if it happens it happens and I will try to not panic... I'm so afraid of loss.. we all are ... but all I can say if it;s in Gods plan then of course I will rejoice yet be concerned till delivery day.

    Sooo Maybe??..dunno..I will let you all know on Thurs how POAS goes. Am so super nervous.

    Jen: Thank you for the hugs moomma.. thinking of you always!


    fifi: Glad you are doing much better hun.. to you!! Heey.. soon soon you will knwo what you are having!! YAYAAYAY (wait..or will it be a surprise??.. either way.....) You wil se your bub soon..YAYAAY! !any kicks yet???


    Smi:


    Melissal: Def agree on that one.... I feel like I can never sit back and enjoy my future pregnancies... and it;s so sad because BOY do I LOVE being pregnant! So it sucks.
    About fam.. me too.. I'm only child..and even if hubby has only one sibling but Goodness his mother has 15 siblings...so holy moleeee.. ROFL

    I know how you feel and am right there with you... a HUGE hug for ya!

    Rachelswirl!! YYAY you're back!1 how's your lil bub doing??... How are you??Glad the bleeding stopped......!!! for you and wishing you the very best sweet momma!!!

    Dellydoo: crazy..but I have the urge to POAS on Thurs Morning. Let's see... I'm more nervous & scared than happy.
    Last edited by RuthiePCOS momma; October 29th, 2008 at 08:32 AM.

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    Jun 2008
    135

    Ruthie I am so hoping you get your bfp sweetheart...
    I am ok, bleeding has stopped but I'm still super paranoid!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
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    Melissa--If you google Jonas method, then click on the one that says "Conception Calculator and Baby Gender Predictor". There's lots of info about lunar conception, and you can enter your birth info... it also helps you figure out what your moon sign is, which supposedly helps determine when you're likely to conceive the easiest. If nothing else, it's interesting reading!



    Rachel S--Glad the bleeding has stopped. How scary for you! I it stops for good so you can actually relax and enjoy your pg'cy! Hugs and



    smi--Woo hoo! O day! I bet I know what you're having for dessert! Good luck catching that Hey, I'm supposed to O in 2 or 3 days--looks like we'll be cycle buds again!!



    Ruthie--I think with all those symptoms, I'd be POAS!! Wishing you all the best, hon!



    fifi--Glad to hear you're taking it easy! Bellyrubs for you!
    Last edited by jen805; October 29th, 2008 at 09:17 AM. : almost forgot fifi!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Rachelswirl: I'm praying all is well with you throughout your pregnancy.. your baby is fine and that's what's important. Always..wishing you the very best!♥ Keep us posted on how you do.
    about me... uuuffffff am super nervous. I told hubby how I feel and he said he will buy me a FRER to see if it's true.
    (nervously laughing)

    Jen & Possums:.. thank you both hun.. well the health insurance is pretty good news.. in case there is a baby on the way.. I can literally RUN to a doc to save this baby... something I couldn't do with my Angel. So nervous.
    Thank you for the support sweet mommas! ♥


  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    Possums - I am really sorry you have had to join us here. Yes - it is a busy thread. A place to go in times when you really need to lean on someone. You will find amazing support here from women who really understand what you are going through. A few of us gals here are also trying IVF. Take it easy and be kind to yourself

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Cairns QLD
    138

    Had to pop in and see what you girls are up to and OMG Ruthie it sounds very positive....I have my fingers crossed and am praying for you......make sure you let us all know the result...

    Jen and Smi - looks like a busy weekend for you 2 LOL enjoy it!!

    Had morning sickness this morning just some dry wretching...horrible feeling but am glad the rest of the day was ok and just really really tired....doc appt tommorrow yay!!!

    hugs to you all xxx